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[QUOTE]Originally posted by PeaceAtLast: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Anthropos: [qb] I need your advice. What should I do when another person beats me in my home? I mean, in the moment. Seconds after the hit. Call the police? Run out? Get angry back and hit him? Beg for mercy? Talk and try to reason with him? Ask for forgiveness even though it is not real but just to keep myself alive? Call the neighbors? What?? [/qb][/QUOTE]boy if that dont sound familiar....i been there, done that with an egyptian guy. the first time he hit me, i forgave him as he stood there hugging me and saying sorry the second time was rape (yes ur man can rape u). cried it off. the third time was a total beat down for going to the mall with a GF, i called my dad the fourth to the like 20th time, his family got iinvolved the 21st time, i called the police because he beat me so hard i pissed myself the 22nd time i was pregnant and he stomped my face intot the carpet. the 23rd time, i left and he begged me to return so i did the 24th time was while i was hoplding a 9 month old. i left and showed up at my moms house bloody and barefoot with a screaming baby the 25th time was after i took him back 2 years later because when i left he couldnt handle it and was basically drinking himself to death. this time i chased him out of the house with a knife and filed for divorce the next day. all those years you see how it escalated? i couldnt leave him because he had me at that point where i felt bad for him blah blah blah but you reach a point where you simply cannot take anymore. love shouldnt hurt. if you love someone, how can you bear to see them suffer? when a man hits a woman he wont stop...things like this are rooted from a long past of **** that had to make him this way and its something these abusers grow up with. you cant change them. it only gets worse and worse...if its this bad this early on how good can it get? when i threw him out, he was cheating and beating and i wanted to take him back a few times...but i let 2 months go by...wouldnt answer his calls...and filed a restraining order. after that, he was out of my heart and for the first time in so long i saw a light and the clouds cleared away and now, despite the fact im so mad at him, i do have peace on my house and there are no more tears and pain. if you have kids, the worst thing you can do is let them see this sh*t and leaving is hard, but there is no problem without an answer. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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