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[QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [QB] Will you be embarrassed when your child gets caught in the middle next time and gets (even if accidentally) harmed or killed? It happens, think it can't happen to you? :confused: Just wait...as it seems you have been doing that. What happened to the therapy? :confused: You need to do this: turn off your computer, get yourself and your child dressed, go to the police station and fill out a report. Tell them you didn't fill out a report immediately because you were confused and afraid but you realize you must do it now to protect the two of you. Call your mother and any other family who might help you and do not go back if he is still there - go anywhere but back where he might be. See if a family member can stay with you must...but absolutely DO NOT put yourself in a position to be alone with him again until he is gone. If you are embarrassed, it means you are seeing his behavior as a reflection of you, and that means you are internalizing his actions. Why? Your marriage is far from perfect, pretending isn't going to change that and eventually the truth will come out. If you have brothers or a father, uncles or cousins (men), get them involved, nothing wakes a man up quicker than a pissed off male from the abused wife's side of the family in his face. It will get worse if you do not. How long will you wait? Until it's too late and then you are left to regret the rest of your life? :( Losing him doesn't matter, it is YOU who will be found. ((big hugs)) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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