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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Exiled: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by reb27: [qb] Hi everyone I have been reading posts for a while now, just decided to registar and ask you guys and gals some questions and opinions. Just wondered what you thought bout my relation ship with my egyptian man. We met November 19th 2007 while i was on a nile cruise with my family. I spotted him working in the bar, we smiled at each other and this went on for a few days after which time another guy on the boat decided to ask me out and i said no. When he asked why i told him that i liked his friend. He told his friend and then after this we began to chat between his work. Just general questions really, then i gave him my mobile number. He waited for a day and then we began texting as he cant have any relationships with guests while working so we did it on the quiet. We got on well and i decided to stay in egypt for longer than one week. Now by the 2nd week he told me that he loved me and wanted to be with me. Just to clear one thing up. i am 27 and he is 32 so no huge age gap, just incase anyone is wondering ;) Anyway, what was making it so hard was that he works 42 days and then has 2 weeks hols but this was too difficult for us so i asked him to leave his job while we rented a flat and he could get another job so i could see him. He did do this but he told me that he needed to give his mum some money as he did when he worked and now he had none so i helped him with this. Basically the story goes on and i am with him 6 months later. sometimes in the uk(on my own to visit family) and sometimes with him but everyone thinks he is using me for a meal ticket? He still is not working but has been having driving lessons so that he can work as a taxi driver which yes, i paid for. I have also been paying the rent on the flat and for food. He asked me if i would marry him and he also asked if i would buy a flat in egypt for us to live in. Then he asked for some kind of company for us to work in which again i would buy. Does this seem fishy?. I just cant get my head around it. We have such a laugh together, we get on well, great love life, he is so attentive to me, always saying he loves me etc, never gets mad with me and never hurts me. I have met his family alot of times, especially his mum and sisters and all his friends. He wants a wedding at the embassy and then a party after to show me off :D Its just this money issue, he asks me to buy flat etc and people say he is using me. What do u think? [/qb][/QUOTE]How a man could ask a woman for an apartment? Company? Money for his mom? Expenses money? Is beyond me! Where is the dignity? But you are also to blame because it was you that took him out of his job, it was you who facilitated and opened the door to what translates to handouts and begging. You are being fleeced and it is your fault. You need to test your man, there is nothing sweet about life when something comes easily. Shame [/QB][/QUOTE]
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