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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Caterpila: [QB] Mira - And this is precisely my point... YOU would find it scary to do things the Islamic way. So why on Earth are non muslim women considering marrying a muslim man in the first place?? If the very first thing you come accross in the relationship requires that you find some mid ground and go against Islamic tradition, because lets face it, sex before marriage is a BIG part of Islam - so you propose taking this away because it provides a 'bridge'? Islam doesn't need bridges, it doesnt need to become more appropriate to western versions of relationships. If God says you dont need ORFI's and living together, and intimacy before marriage, then you dont need it, for a successful marriage IMO. At the end of the day, you start your relationship by trying to find a 'bridge' trying to somehow mesh these two contrasting expectations of relationships, do you think that the rest will go smoothly? Do you think that you will not continually look for 'bridges' in your relationship? I'm not saying that only the western women are asking for ORFI's, because I am aware Egytians use them for various reasons, as well as men suggesting them. What I AM saying is the arguments given by western women on this thread promote things from a western, non muslim perspective - lets not leave religion out of this, just because society accepts ORFI's, because Islam does not, and you ARE marrying a Muslim. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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