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[QUOTE]Originally posted by chelsea: [QB] Let me tell you a story, my story in fact, but before i do i ask that everyone please looks at this in a fair and objective way; I met my husband in Egypt i had gone on a holiday with my youngest son and was visiting friends who live there, so i was warned and warned of the advances of the male population and was prepared, in fact i went to relax sight see and general have a nice time with friends. I met a man, quiet spoken polite, attentive he was a friend of a friend, he joined our group when we went out, horse riding, swimming, for a meal he always acoompainied us. The last few days of my holiday we spent time together, when i returned home we kept in touch, (i was divorced with 2 sons). I returned for 3 weeks and we got to know each other much better, i ate in his family home visited all his relatives aunts uncles brothers etc etc etc so many. I was not always made to feel welcome but his immediate family were great it was his aunts, cousins that i felt the hostility from and of course i knew why i was stealing a good husband which was for one of their daughters. I visited approx four years about 4 times a year, we leased a flat of our own,so that i had somwhere to stay instead of hotels, we were orfi married (yea i know) things were not always perfect we had our disagreements, arguments. After about 4 years i returned one time and after a couple of days his mobile rang like it always did one call after another you know - anyway to cut a very long story short i found out that it was a egyptian girl. He said that it was a neighbour of his aunt who was ill who had his number so that both him and his brother could be contacted in emergency. He changed his story again to say that he had got her to tel to make me jealous because some on my friends (ex-pats) that live in Egypt were gay and he didnt like me still speaking with them.. Anyway i returned home angry, i went back to Egypt to my flat and we tried to talk things out, this is now 4 years on, he had always wanted to come to the UK so we applied for his visa, he got no trouble stright away we had all the evidence of out 4 years relationship and every other piece of info that they required to be honest if he had not got it it would have been out of order. He came to the UK we got married and his visa was extended he got a job stright away, then another and another. Then he started not coming home from work, he would finish at 3pm and returned home at 1 2 3 in the morning he was amoking weed drinking, as we have a large ethnic community he soon met other egyptians, and other nationalities, then he stayed out all night. In the end i told him to **** ** he then blamed me, my family , my son for living with us. He as now applied for his ILR and left the home, he phones and says he cant wait to return to Egypt he hates the UK the weather working every day he as debt from his visa card, he as had 3 cars which i have bought, been college got a job, but hes not happy. The morale of the story is THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. :confused: I will help him to return and wish him every happiness he as brought me sadness.... He as got his visa without any trouble, got his extension and now his ILR but :( he is lost unhappy and of course really didnt love me did he? I will move on and so will he but the lost time is lost we have known each other now for 7 years along time..... Anyone thinking that relocation is easy its not its bloody hard and both have to try and try and try if not then its a lost cause. xxxxxxx [/QB][/QUOTE]
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