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[QUOTE]Originally posted by happybunny: [QB] I think it is Ayisha that said "there is a difference between REQUESTING and COMMANDING. To me personally that is the key ;) I have never felt like my husband wanted me to *obey* him we just do not have a relationship like that. Of course there are things i do that i know pleases him and he does also. Cat quoted: The husband has no right to any of her money. In return, the wife should obey her husband in things regarding the marriage - including whether she can work outside the house and who can visit in the house - but he has no say in how she invests or spends her own money as long as it is in a halal (Islamically legal) manner. To me Cat that is where i draw the line. It is my home (as well as my husbands) he could not and would not tell me who would be welcome in my home. He could not and would not tell me not to work. :eek: Those (amongst others) are aspects of our lives that he would trust me to make the right choices. He knows that i would never choose to work if it were to affect our home in a negative manner. He knows that i would never welcome a person into my home that would be wrong. This is where the black and white areas turn grey to me. :confused: Of course i would always tell my husband where i was going and he would expect that but he in turn would always tell me where he were going, as i would expect that. I think it was Rumi that said that we all have a difference on what we ourselves are calling controlling/obeying and i agree Cat that if both parties are happy then who are we to judge ;) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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