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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by cloudberry: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [qb] HB I agree and wouldn't say 100% but ANY chance of my baby not coming back would be enough for me [/qb][/QUOTE]Ayisha, there is ALWAYS a chance that this would happen. Then, why marry an Egyptian? Or a man for Middle East. There are stories that everything was supposed to be fine and still the husband took the kids. And well, if someone is about to take the kids she or he surely is behaving at his or hers best. Like it was in the Jacky Trevane book. There are no garanties in life. I know we are talking about madame f here, they have a bit difficult history but the fact is kids who are half Egyptian do travel only with another parent, with dads also. This thread makes it sound like this 'kidnapping' is the norm. And it goes other way too, if an Egyptin marries a foreigner, for sure there is always someone in the family who will ask are you sure she won't take your kids out of Egypt someday. But no one ever talks about this. My parents were only divorced and I wasn't really close to my dad but it still left marks - imagine you never see your dad again (assuming he wasn't abusive or anything). [/qb][/QUOTE]hi cloudy, as you say there is always a chance of this when marrying an Egyptian and having children with him no matter where you are in the world, the difference here is that in the country the child is in now for him to abduct the child would be illegal, if the child is in Egypt its not. Madame f has had many problems in her marriage, as she stated in the original post, and she says they are sorted but if she is concerned her refusal would end the marriage then the problems are not sorted out to the extent she would wish. Yes many fathers travel to Egypt alone with their children and return with them too, but those mothers are not on here asking should she allow it, they just get on with it because they have no cause for concern, madame f HAS cause for concern or she wouldnt be asking this question. I am not saying her concern is kidnapping at all, but she has concerns as she said in the original post, FOR THE CHILD. A father taking the child to Egypt to be raised by his family is not unknown, I agree its not the norm but this is ES, this is where the worst that can happen is discussed and DOES happen. For the child I would not let him take her for that long, that far, without a mother whom she knows and has the mother bond with, you know how that is yourself. She is too young, it is too hot, it is tooo different for her all at once and without her MUM. Many things happen in a child at this age and the psychological damage can be quite devastating for a child of that age. Children adapt to change easily BUT too many changes all at once can have an awful effect on a baby this young. The effect may not even come out until later in the child. There is no manual when you have a child and you learn things as you go along, sometimes too late and have to deal with the consequences as best you can. If she was another year older then I may have said differently, but this age no I wouldnt do it. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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