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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by galmarriedtoegyptian: I think you have reality mixed up with coldness. All that is not fabricated is natural and composes our reality but it is not meant to be as cruel and cold as your version of reality. Yours is just sad. Plain ugly and sad. Reality is "the state of things as they actually exist." If you think that Allah, in all His greatness, created this world and all of us to be heartless, cruel and disconnected from others feelings (in other words lacking empathy, like you) then you have absolutely no sense of reality. You are living a warped sense of it and most likely it is because some where in your life someone hurt you so bad, or you never knew selfless love, so that you think this generic "reality" you are pedalling here is actually real. But it isn't. Reality is being able to accept things for what they are, experience them, pain and all, and then heal and learn from them. Something, we can all help this girl do...but which your "sense of reality" apparently does not let you see. I don't know what part of Cairo you are living in, but you must be somewhere near a dark alley because outside my window I saw people who are rich and poor and who still get up every morning to give life a go. :) And notice................the only drama here..............YOU BROUGHT IN WITH YOU. We have a sad girl here and the rest of us who are offering words of kindness to her. And in comes "Troll Ferret with a T" dishing it out like she is head host of The View in hell! [/QUOTE]Its ok giving sympathy or empathy but IMO Ferret and Tine were doing what was needed ALSO. As you said yourself you look out your window and see people who get up every morning and still give life a go, so does Ferret. I dont know where you live but here in Egypt life for the majority of those people out the window giving life a go is a damn site harder than this ladies, even though she IS having a hard time and is down a dark well right now, she WILL get out of it inshaAllah and move on. Giving endless sympathy/empathy will only keep her down there longer and continue to feed the feeling sorry for herself mood she is in. The beauty of this board IS the diversity of its people and the different ways they ALL can help one manage a situation. ;) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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