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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Man Ferret: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Tigerlily: [qb] Dalia and Ferret, you never had the wish to marry, have children, grow old with this man and enjoy your grandchildren?? For my part I had the urge to have a baby before I even left school at 16. I always loved kids, I had to look into every stroller and complement each mother on her newborn, I worked as a babysitter back home as I did in Egypt. For me my family really means everything. I would not want to have a different life. When I look at my children I am proud and delighted that I was able to bring them into this world. My single years are way behind me, I had enough fun and I enjoyed myself, my career is over - I had some pretty cool jobs - as I chose to stay home to look after our offspring. And I am grateful towards my husband who feels the same way and provides for us. Without his enormous contribution we would not be able to have a big family like that and as you know we are growing. It's an absolute team effort what we are doing. Ferret wrote: [i]"I suppose someday if I do ever pop aa sprog out I could learn to like it but I really would never look back in fondness of the days it screamed at me and was sick down my neck."[/i] You know I heard similar things before from other women but the truth is you change once you deliver. You will bond with your child and you wanna take care of it as good as possible. You will not mind if your baby will burp and spits on your blouse cause you know it's necessary to burp. When your child gets sick you feel awful yourself and when it smiles at you you gonna be even more happy. And yes that is called [i]maternal instinct[/i]. ;) PS: I love the way babies smell (and I don't mean dirty diapers here)!! :D [/qb][/QUOTE]Straight answer. No. I don't need others in my life to complete me. My life is perfect and I am very very happy. I do not need a dependant to love me nor do I need a man to love me to make me feel good about myself. Some people simply are happy with what they have... some simply aren't. I have children in the family and I work with children, I get to enjoy others children then I get to go and continue my independant lifestyle on my own.. very very happily. My joy in life is travelling... a child would mess that right up. Why would I want to end what makes me happy because society deems having a kid to be the norm [/QB][/QUOTE]
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