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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Cosmogirl: [QB] If this is a real situation and not just typical ES flame bait, please consider that you really haven't got an accurate assessment of what his day to day life is like. FOr all you know he could be struggling with mental illness. Or.. that he has a wife and family already and the one he has lied to is YOU. The internet relationship tends to become a series of "dares". Where you want what you think you are feeling to be REAL so you start to behave as if there is in fact a relationship. You love a man who has never seen your children? Seriously? You love a man who is living in a village 2 hours from Cairo, in a situation where his parent's can "take away" his things as if he is a naughty 13 year old looking at boobies? Quit trying to be a hero and figure this out. See this time as a "moment of clarity" given to you by God, and sit back and see what HE does. My advise.. DO NOTHING. When he gets all hepped up online about needing you to solve this.. and trust me.. money will help ease his "family pain" .. DO NOTHING. Nod sympathetically, make cooing noises, and then remind yourself that if he wants to pursue you, you are worth pursuing. It's not like you depend on him to pay the morgage or take out the trash at night. He's a face on a screen and the truth is that you know very little about his day to day. Even if he was living in your house, you have no true read on how he will handle stressful situations, or what he really has in mind. Egyptians are very very very patient people, and manipulation and coersion are a part of the cultural social makeup. There could be a part of this that is simply he didn't think that you'd ACTUALLY follow thru on the flirtation, fly over there and marry him. As my X used to say, "I'm just a poor guy, from Giza what do you want from me?" Egyptian guys aren't raised with a romantic ideal and the answer, "I just want you to love me" isn't something they grip on. What do YOU want from this 25 year old kid from 1/2 way around the world? What do you think HE will be able to provide you? This just sounds like shennanigans. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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