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My ex contacted me today and said that he is going to Algeria to meet his fiancee's parents. He also says he dosen't know if they will accept him or not. He said if they don't, he wants to remarry. He says the woman is working here (Egypt) on a contract for a year, and he don't know if the marriage will last. He asked me can we keep in touch . I changed my cell phone number and I'm relocating (lease is up next week).
Chef Mick Member # 11209
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good for you Dilemma
Tigerlily Member # 3567
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Dilemma, are you talking about the unwashed, unkempt, lazy to work, primitive son of a you know what??
Come on girl, you deserve better than that. Don't be his doormat you hear me??!!
I HATE TOOTI TOO Member # 17701
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and tigerbitch's kids deserve better than an old online whore who trolls forums for cybersex and news 24/7. seriously, child neglect in germany should concern her more than egypt. someone should investigate her home life and save those kids.
Unicorn Member # 16462
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Hi Dilemma, Why play second fiddle to anyone? Accept the best! Leave him to his situation and start attracting someone better who deserves you.
Dilemma Member # 16672
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No worry, I have closed that chapter. I just hope her father dosen't approve him. He says there are no jobs in Egypt and he really needs someone to support him. His mother is old and needs support and he said she can do this. He says that she is paying his way to Algeria. He says she's 33, and never been married so she will do whatever to get married. He said she will be a Khadija to him
Dilemma Member # 16672
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I hear you loud and clear Tigerlilly. The thought never crossed my mind.
Cosmogirl Member # 8748
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Thats not drama with your ex, that is your ex's drama. Leave it alone and don't put your mind to it again. It sounds like he is trying to keep you in the loop asd a backup plan in case things go south.
Trust me, when he runs out of hustles to pull.. he will find a job.
Dilemma Member # 16672
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LOL so true Cosmo.
Cheekyferret Member # 15263
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lol Cosmo, well said.
He sounds like a drama queen who just wants to keep you in his sights just in case....DELETE DELETE DELETE.
What a tosser!
LebanesePrincess Member # 17702
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his fiancee is algerian? Give them till nex football game between egypt and algeria and they will be divorced!!
Dilemma Member # 16672
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Good one LebanesePrincess
Dilemma Member # 16672
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Update:
Ex contacted me and said he wants to meet up to talk. I said no. He then said that her family approved the marriage and they will marry here and then she will go back to Algeria because she can't stay in Egypt because her work contract is up and she will come back to Egypt every six months, and they will see where it goes. Now why did he tell me this? He wants me to be his second wife. I will be going to get a new phone number.
marydot Member # 15932
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If any man treated me like this I would have no further contact with him.
Next time he calls HANG UP and turn your phone off simple !!!!
He is just trying to get a reaction from you.
Ayisha Member # 4713
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hes looking for someone to fill the lonely nights his wife is away, cheeky sod. His mentality is that you cant 'do without' and will consider this option. Next time he calls open the phone but say nothing, leave it on while making a cuppa, waste his money without talking to him, he will soon get tired of that.
Thats what I do with phone stalkers now if hubby's not home to throw verbal abuse at them
Chiquita Member # 17764
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Just change your number - simples!
Seems like there's a part of you that that's still attached to this loser otherwise u wouldn't entertain his calls or have simply changed your number. Neither would you be asking for opinions on here. He's clearly insecure and wants to make u jealous but dorsn't want to lose u completely in case there's a chance u might come round.
Let's face it, u can offer him slot more security than some girl in Algeria. Don't let him use you or emotionally torture you. You're worth more than that. If he really loved you he would have never got married.
Dilemma Member # 16672
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When we divorced, I changed my number but gave my new number to my brother and mother so one of them gave my ex the number. What he had intended with his new wife has backfired. I wouldn't be surprised if he divorced her. He has been divorced twice already. Lastly, when did I ask for anyone opinion? I was venting and I received responses to my vent.
Tigerlily Member # 3567
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quote:Originally posted by Dilemma: He wants me to be his second wife.
Now that doesn't surprise me after all what you have already written about him on here. What a WEASEL!!!
The poor Algerian girl who will marry him. You know the nightmare with him is over for you but she is about to start hers and she doesn't even know it.
Chiquita Member # 17764
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In Islam depending on the school of thought u follow u need permission from your first wife to get married again and have a second wife. And also there are so many conditions you have to follow about equality that it's almost impossible for a modern man to follow in this day and age. For instance if a man takes his first wife out for dinner he also has to take his second wife out to dinner. If he buys one a dress he has to buy the other one a dress too etc etc.
This guy is just using his religion to gain personal satisfaction. He's a loser and you need to cut him out completely. Maybe difficult at first but believe me you will be so much happier few months down the line!
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