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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [QB] Arranged marriages in Islamic communities happen mostly in Pakistan, or between British Pakistani and Pakistani, where the whole marriage is arranged by the family even down to who you will marry and you meet for the first time on the wedding day. The majority of British Pakistani males take a wife from Pakistan, marry her and bring her back to UK. This boy the OP is talking about is claiming to be forced into a marriage he doesnt want but will go along with his family's wishes, or not. He should speak up and say he loves someone else and propose marrying the one he wants and allow the family to look at that option and give the girl a chance to find another. It is also not common that she, or her family, find the man, its normally the man or his family that find the girl. Its more normal for the man to find a girl he likes and then contact her family, not the other way round. I have recently been close to 2 people in the situation of finding a partner. My sis in laws family were approached by the family of a boy with a wish he wanted to marry my sis in law. My hubby and brothers then contacted and met the man and his family then he was allowed to meet my sis in law, she agreed to marry him. Another is a friend of my hubby who had seen a girl with friends and contacted my hubby as this girl is from his village. Hubby contacted the brother and a meeting is arranged. It is not normal for a family to tell a man or boy he 'has' to marry a particular girl, he will be approached and has every right to say no. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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