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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by pablo_7777: [QUOTE] because you denied saying it [/QUOTE]i really denied nothing but u just taking my words and understand it according to what digs u want to find in it .[/QUOTE]It may be a language problem Pablo, but you did say that SHE would ruin HER happy life. I am not digging, just pointing out what you said and saying it's not HER ruining HER happy life, which I am assuming is not happy now as HER husband told her HE will marry be sleeping with another woman. Your post is saying pretty much accept it and stay happy! [QUOTE] [QUOTE] Really? You are married to an English woman and you don't know that culture. We are discussing a Brit/Egyptian marriage here, it has 2 sides and 2 cultures. [/QUOTE]and also u r talking about 2 other people that they r not u and ur husband. she might want the divorce and she might cant live without him . be wise analyze the situation first then give her the choice and dont give her what would u do. coz she is not u [/QUOTE]I have analyzed the situation first and she asked here for advice on what we would do. Yes maybe SHE can't live without him and maybe she can. Of course it's her choice in the end as it's her life, and she has probably already made that choice as she is not here again after only 2 posts. ;) It is not MY or YOUR job to give her any choice, we are not involved in this at all. She came for advice and is getting it. You are doing the Egy man side and I and others are doing the Brit woman side. There are after all 2 sides to this whatever country they are in. [QUOTE] [QUOTE] Who said that? Why does he have a 'right' and the couple involved don't? What if it's his son that can't give children, will he abandon him? Will he blame him or blame Allah for not allowing him 'his right to have grand children'? [/QUOTE]i said that . and if u dont believe me then u can go to the streets in Luxor and ask about that issue. if it is his son they would have offered her the divorce if she really desperate to kids.[/QUOTE]So according to YOU the father has a right to grand children? No one has rights to anything as has been stated by stayingput. You get what Allah wills. Kids have a right to be protected from harm but how many are sticking the baby on the front of a motorbike here? [QUOTE]i have a story that a woman was not happy with the sex that her husband give her although she has 4 children.[/QUOTE]Hate to break it to you but women are different to men in that just because a women becomes pregnant it does not mean she orgasmed or enjoyed sex in any way at all. You may need to think about that one. ;) [QUOTE] so she asked the divorce and he gave it to her . it is in Egypt but i think most of u will not her about that coz u really have no idea what is into our culture . may be u can see things but there are lots of things u cant see. believe me .[/QUOTE]This has nothing to do with culture, any woman that is forced to sleep with an animal of a man will seek divorce if she has the means to. Also none of this is anything to do with what I can see or not in this culture. [QUOTE] [QUOTE] But you wouldn't allow her to sleep with another man to have a child while being married to you? Why not? This is exactly the same as this man is asking [/QUOTE]ofcourse i wouldnt accept that. but if she was honest enough and came to me in a civilized way and said i need kids i would give her the divorce to have what she wants. and i would love and respect her so much for that action.[/QUOTE]but what if she loved you and wanted to stay married to you? Why is it acceptable for a man to have another woman for kids and not her to have another man for kids and stay with you? [QUOTE]no low and no religion would let the women have 2 husbands in the same time.[/QUOTE]already been addressed by Dalia. [QUOTE] [QUOTE] You really think that spending her live KNOWING her husband is sleeping with anoher woman wont 'ruin her life' for the REST of her life? [/QUOTE]Ayisha . u might dont do that but not all people like u . give her the choice to decide what suite her not what suite u .[/QUOTE]She asked for advice, she is getting it. It has nothing to do with me what she chooses to do and I am not the only one here saying these things, why do you only pick on me for saying it? [QUOTE] [QUOTE] Yes she has the choice and she came here asking for opinions, so don't tell me I can't give my opinion and you can! [/QUOTE]give ur opinion and dont force it on her . same like i did . i analyzed it and gave more than one opinion according to the difrent circumstances. and she has the right to choose what suite her.[/QUOTE]I have given my opinion like you have, I am not and CANNOT force this woman to do anything she doesn't want to. [QUOTE] [QUOTE] Yes, he has to look at his 'rights' and she has to look at hers. [/QUOTE]again u r talking about what she has to do as u r forcing ur opinion on her. give her a space to use her brain and heart. people are not the same . not every one thinking ur way or having ur lifestyle. [/QUOTE]And not everyone thinks your way or has your lifestyle. I am giving an opinion same as you are so why are you accusing me of forcing anything on her? How can I force her to do anything like his parents are forcing him to do? I know women that are married either as a second wife or a first wife and they made their choices. I know women that are the only wife but accept there may come a day that their husband will want children and will have to make that choice then. I also know a woman that was married happily for over 7 years when she was then told by her husband he would take another wife in Egypt for children and wanted her to divorce him so that he could use his newly acquired British passport to bring that wife to UK and they could all live happily in the same house, in UK and then he would remarry the British wife 'Islamically' again. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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