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[QUOTE]Originally posted by metinoot: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Monkey: [qb] I'd just like to say, Sono, if you ever want to have a conversation that doesn't resolve around personal slights, orfis, hobbits, gigalos, how your relationship was legitimate whilst the rest of us are all saddos, etc, etc, etc, then actually, I'm happy to. But I think til then I'm going to sign off because it's all getting a little bit silly. [/qb][/QUOTE]There has been hundreds of threads that don't touch on those subjects in which your friends attacked and insulted, ganged up on me time and time again. So your assertations are completely off base. The point being the same gang that goes on a blue streak taking these threads into an argument chirping, insulting and berating me on threads I haven't posted to will go on and on. Its all the same group of "saddos" to use your term which have been taken advantage of in the worst of ways. Yet they insist in outwardly carrying a false happiness. While inside they are brimming over with hate, bitterness and self-loathing fatigue. Yet this isn't the first relationship in their lives of that nature. Each and ever relationship they've had with a man has been the same, they just can't fess up to the fact that they seek these situations and refuse to withdraw from each situation which is worse than the last. I am not going to take responsiblity for thier unhappiness. Nor am I going to sit here and pretend to be happy for them. They all crack at one point, unfortunately this group had their crack during a thread in which I happened to disagree with them and I was not the only username to disagree but I am one of the last usernames who dared to shine a differing opinion on them during their breakdown. Oh well. THese fascade doen't last forever and eventually these situations will wear them down. Right now they attempt to wear me down to bring themselves strength and fend off hitting bottom. What they don't realize is there is a ton of falsehoods they have held as truths just to have something to argue about. Backing out of these bad situations will take more time and more effort and rob them of the delights of off loading the burden of these situations because they still have alot invested in these falsehoods. Its baggage, all these falsehoods are baggage that weigh them down and make recovery after hitting bottom that much more work. I have a friend who spent part of his teen years in Miami. THe older widowed women who live there had these types of relationships with refugees from Cuba and the Carribbean island. It was the "cool" thing to do, and plenty of 50s, 60s and 70s novels were written about this lifestyle. These women tried in vain to live up to these tragic and triumphant characters in these novels. Yet they ignored the last 1/4 of these novels in which the characters eventually bottomed out, they lost their social standing, they lost their looks, their self-respect and alienated family. Some even lost their fortunes. In real life and in the last 1/4 of the novels they aspired their lives after. Somehow this defined an era. It sucks, and I feel bad for them. but they always had someone to pick on. Always. Problem for them is everyone around them knew and understood exactly what was happening, they didn't say it to their face until the widows bottomed out and were down, down and going to stay down. Remember the American expression "kick someone when they are down", well the observers of all this did exactly that. The collective tormented, the one person these widows picked on did not kick them when the widow was down, but did manage to secure benefits from the situation. I am nearing 40 now. And I am redefining my outlook on life and aging, ES has contributed a great deal to how I will spend the last 40 years of my life. That and all the juicy gossip **** I've heard about the aging rich widows of Miami. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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