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EgyptianDoc77 Member Posts: 276 |
posted 16 March 2004 05:02 PM
Hi Isabelle Welcome abroad on this ineresting nice forum..i either havent been for long in here , just a couple of days earlier that u did and just found it by mere chance but its quite a nice one to give some of the free minutes to.. Hopefully u will enjoy ur stay in egypt when u come but july would be much hot for u being here a first time but still u will enjoy it and incase u get a sun stroke, i believe ur a doctor, u would manage it all urself ( just joking ).. Nothing much really about humble me, a 27 yrs old almost next month , and i practice in the field of dermatology and andrology as a resident at universty hospitals in cairo and as a researcher in the national research centre of cairo as well..Well i dont know what about ur medical system in france but here after we'r finsihed with the internship which i believe ur doing now, we get residencies like the one iam at now, first priority at universty hospitals, where iam now, and where u would be a professor at universty oen day as well and then govermnent hospitals..i assume u will get ur attachment of exchange at universty hospitals, coz thats always teh case, could be where iam .. and hobbies are reading mostly and travelling much, love to experience new cultures and still sporting and going to the gym, but above all i love my research work too.. and nope am not married si qui concerne parle francaise c'vrai je peux parler un peux de francaise, je peuc pas tres forte mais je essaie me debrouiller , mais toujour je prefere a parler ici en anglais sil vous plais pour l'autres a me comprend.. what else, about egypt, well hopefully u will learn much from these messages in here but dont take them all as a rule but u also should ask people about their experiences for u to not fall in mistakes like others did..But generally the people are humble, moderate and generous and the examples u find people talking about r for losers mainly but anyway u will enjoy and if u need anything, u may ask us all and always willing to help u if u need... prends soin de toi ------------------ IP: Logged |
Katiapolska Junior Member Posts: 21 |
posted 16 March 2004 08:10 PM
hallo my name is katia i live in egypt of 3 months now, im sorry i just hope be friend with all of you but i take advantage i find a doctor also. i think you are dermatologue?? the EgptianDoc77 are you dermatologue?? are you skin doctor? i find you write this IP: Logged |
EgyptianDoc77 Member Posts: 276 |
posted 17 March 2004 06:16 AM
Hi katia Hope ur doign fine, well i just read ur message and yes iam a dermatologist, i really didnt get to understand much of what ur skin problem is. if you need any help ur most welcome, and dont worry much just dont think much cause stress woudl exacerbate the condition, i mean make it more apparent and bothering to u.. if u need any help or advice just leave a note and ur welcome ------------------ IP: Logged |
Feline Junior Member Posts: 3 |
posted 18 March 2004 11:02 AM
Egyptian Doc, Could you please look at my post entitled "Help! clueless american female seeking advice about christian egyptian man?" and let me know if you have any knowledge about this? I really am clueless. I would also appreciate feedback from anyone else here. Thank you IP: Logged |
EgyptianDoc77 Member Posts: 276 |
posted 18 March 2004 11:34 AM
quote: Hi Feline, First of all, much thanks for seeking to read my opinion. First of all and as a matter of fact u ve been confused by reading all posts about that sort of flirty men, but believe me Egypt is 70 million inhabitants and those evil souls being talked about are just a minority of ignorant ill educated, respectless figure of egyptian people who basically u find worthless and simply ignorants.. As a matter of fact the egyptian nature is so much kind, and mush helpful and so much emotional..Yeah its true what u have been told about the emotional aspect, u find us passionate and much more expressing perhaps than others.. u know all people have feelings and much of it but the way u express it differs and that could be our own way.. The man ur talking about sounds from the first impression a good person and much suiting in many ways, socially, age wise, education wise and even lived in ur country for almost 38 years so much aquainted with ur culture and life style.. But u have to get to know him more, talk to him more, try to anticipate his motives for marriage, u said he has nothing to abuse u for, he is weel eduucated from a good socioeconomic level, and even divorced, so he has passed with one experience of relation before which even kept him divorced and much cautious to indulge in another relation unless he is sure enough.. I dont think its a matter of flirting in ur condition for many reasons which would pop up to my mind.. 2) His standard of life, education and age..i dont think its a matter of flirting by now, yes fliriting exists any age and at any time but he sounds quite serious fom ur way.. its my opinion, but u should ask about him, ask of his record, try to find out about so many things.. like i said before, love aint just words or feelings but a kingdom built up on corner stones, of love, respect, understanding and harmong and built to stay no matter what happens later on.. there is no harm with his expression of passionate feelings in much way coz yeah we do that our own way but everything has limits too, and u have ur own heart and think with ur brain cupled with ur heart not just ur heart.. advice is try to know more about him, and finally have faith and pray and ask for the best and for peave and happiness ur most welcome anytime to debate anything or ask and may god bless u and finally bye ------------------ IP: Logged |
blondy25 Member Posts: 50 |
posted 22 March 2004 11:31 AM
quote: what are you clueless about??? IP: Logged |
CATTIE Junior Member Posts: 14 |
posted 23 March 2004 05:32 AM
Salam to you doctor ! I read all these conversations with great interest . Thank you to give me your opinion . IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 07:18 AM
Cattie, I know I wasn't ask this question but I would also like to respond. The simple answer is NO. IP: Logged |
EgyptianDoc77 Member Posts: 276 |
posted 23 March 2004 07:33 AM
quote: salam cattie iam sure we all know stories of people who changed to the better and for sure the gigolos are no exemption, so lets shall pray they return to their path, coz even if the whole life is a gigolo one, i believe at sometime, if soon or late they could realise life is more than just a game.. About an egyptian man respect for a woman after he had sex with her.. i believe only if he really loves her and is keen upon her and shares something very very very strong with her..BUT otherwise i would tell u no, coz basically if h e really loved her he wouldnt have let her indulge in that with him, to tell u the truth many men are even sort of cautious to engage even to a woman who was previously enagaged " not married or touched" , so imagine if that was the situation.. plz take care of urself and enjoy the forum and ur welcome to ask and debate any time ------------------ IP: Logged |
Isabelle Junior Member Posts: 18 |
posted 23 March 2004 07:54 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CATTIE: [B]Salam to you doctor ! hi cattie i checked your information and says in paris, are you french? iam from montpellier, iam french my name is isabelle or where you are from? i like the topic also is nice, IP: Logged |
jaguar Member Posts: 458 |
posted 23 March 2004 08:12 AM
quote: This is sick and pathetic ! IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 08:37 AM
Goodness, Doc! What century is this? And how about men? Like they all stay "untouched" even until their first marriage? [This message has been edited by katrina (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 08:38 AM
I always knew that ........... guess thats why I was kind of scared to marry any Egyptian man.
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katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 08:57 AM
quote: What do you mean Tigerlilly? IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 09:12 AM
Arabic men want to marry an untouched girl ...... its in their religion, in their culture. Since I had boyfriends before (in my previous Western life) I really understood I don't fit their profile. I know there are foreign women out happily married to Arab men who accept and respect their wifes even if they were not more "virgins" when getting married. Oh and my ex-fiancee (an Coptic Christian) told me this was one of the things why we can't make it together. Imagine this, after being with him for 1.5 years ........ and going through all the s*** together. He is still not married ..... probably looking for a untouched girl in London ...... what a hard place to find one! He acted all modern ..... unfortunately it took me a long time to understand him. [This message has been edited by Tigerlily (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 09:28 AM
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Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 09:38 AM
Well, I was very young, naive and he was actually my first "serious" boyfriend. Guess thats why I didn't want to give up and tried to work it. Love makes you blind...... And he was very good-looking (he used to work as a model in Egyptian commercials) and he had a great way of talking (not in a cheap way). We lived together in Egypt with his mom (who was Italian), his father already died 20 years before, so we treated each other like we were engaged and made future plans (like every couple in love). Since he was living in England for a while I THOUGHT he would be different. Well, this was not the case. Our relationship was always like one day sunshine the other day .............. Oh, another awful thing was, that I suspected in London I was pregnant and his awful answer was "Alright, you either have an abortion or I will leave you". Why was he telling me this, I loved this guy! Well, I wasn't having his baby and four months later on we finally got engaged in Germany. But we had to many own problems (+ on top of it he didn't have a high morale for going to work). But couple of months later he took of to England again and I just told him I couldn't go and need to stay in Egypt because I got work there. I visited him a year later again in London (because I was still so much in love with him....) I know it sounds very naive but I guess I had to have this kind of experience. Well, thats my story with my Egyptian man, hard to forget ....... [This message has been edited by Tigerlily (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 09:47 AM
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Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 09:58 AM
How I healed my wounds......? Well my next relationship was an American, we met in Cairo, and I got married to him a year later on. Now we got children and they keep me busy. I was kind of afraid to end up with another relationship like that and made sure we marry quickly. I am still in love with Egypt though, thats why I am going yearly on vacation, hope to move to there again in the nearest future and lastly I give my opinions here on this forum. Thanks, Katrina, for your compassion. But some wounds never really heal ..... not even with time. [This message has been edited by Tigerlily (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 02:38 PM
quote: That must have been devastating, and so awful to go through...I cannot say I understand, I have never loved and lost. I don't think I have ever loved any man. I mean, I have liked a lot, but not loved. I can only imagine what it must have felt like. At least you found the strength to move on. Well done, and I sincerly hope you are very happy now. IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 02:51 PM
Hi, Gigglegirl, there were times - actually months - I didn't really know what to do with myself beside going to work (I had to work to support myself). I actually hated walking down certain streets in Zamalek - this is an area of Cairo where we lived together and nothing and no one could take me out of this blues. I really wanted to leave Egypt after this failure, I really wanted to return to my homecountry. But I had to stay because of my work. For almost a year - whenever I went out to a club - I starting drinking and sitting with people together, suddenly it made 'click' and there he was again .............. even if only in my mind. I know many people going through this experience and I don't know to give anyone good advices to get over a lost love. [This message has been edited by Tigerlily (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:11 PM
What's with you, you racist bigot?! I may not be Egyptian, but I really do object to such onscene and incorrect stereotypical views by a narrow minded little sod like you. What's the point of you coming on here to be a racist. I'm sure you don't know EgyptianDoc77, and neither do I for thet matter, but he is probably at least 100 times the man you are!! And for your information Egypt is not backward. What is wrong with having good morales? Nothing, I feel sorry for you. It must be horrible to view the world the way yuo do. Coz one thing's for certain.Not many people will like you the way you are now! [This message has been edited by shumza (edited 24 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:17 PM
quote: It's good to talk about pain you have been thhrough. It is so bad for you to keep it bottled up. It is like keeping anger bottled up. This causes stress, insomnia and may increase your chances of having a heart attack as stress can cause your blood pressure to rise, putting increased demand on the heart to function properly. Maybe this is where the expressions 'broken heart' and 'heart ache' come from? Anyway, I might not know how you feel...but I can always listen... IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:19 PM
Gossip, can't you just leave us alone and keep your useless and offensive comments to yourself ..........? Well if you were trying to provoke ....... you missed it big time. IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:34 PM
quote: You even tried to strangle me or anyone in my area, and I would kick your useless head in. I might be a woman, but I have had training in self defence and kick boxing. Using both I can kill a man with one kick. So don't you dare ever threaten me. I am not a maniac, and you are right, EgyptianDoc77 is not 100 times the man you are...he is at least 500 times the man you are. You are scum. Useless, pointless scum. I don't know what it is with people like you. You must be jealous I guess. By the way, I am not Egyptian. And I am not muslim either, hence Ido not wear a hijab. And I am not a slut and will not be called one by someone like you!!!!! [This message has been edited by GiggleGirl (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:34 PM
People, gossip has certainly some mental issues... IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:40 PM
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GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:41 PM
don't believe you about what?? IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:47 PM
Why are you so intolerant. I have tolerance for others. Even people who call me a bimbo. What have Egyptians ever done to you? IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:50 PM
quote: USA really, why are you so angry at Egyptians? What have anybody done to you that you would start attacking people you do not even know? IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 03:55 PM
Just ignore his postings .......... IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:07 PM
What makes us dumb? The fact that we ask the opinion of and educated man. Not a snivelling, racist little sod like you? Does it make you jealous? Does it make you angry? Do you secretly want all the women askingyour opinions?? IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:18 PM
quote: Ha!!! You profile says it all...no occupation and no interests. You boring little guy. The onlt thing you can do is sit at your computer and be obnoxious! Why? What has happened in your life to make you like this? And do you know EgyptianDoc77 personally? IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:25 PM
And if I were you, I'd giveup arguing with me right now. You are only going to lose. I alays give better than I get. This lass fights dirty...and the worse you get, the worse I will get. You will give in. Eventually, I break every one down. IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:47 PM
quote: personally i would only get to know him if iam to strangle this mussy egyptian pimp. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl... and get to use his hijabi slut how old r u? [/B][/QUOTE] Old enough to kick your **** you disgusting, racist pig. I don't know how many time I have to tell you: 1) I am not a slut. 2) I am not a muslim and therefore do not wear a hijab. Do you get that? Do you understand? I don't know If I can make it any simpler. What makes him a pimp then? Please elaborate... IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:49 PM
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GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:51 PM
quote: I cannot just ignore them. They have got me all fired up. I refuse to let a bigot like this say this that have no substance. I always argue my case 'til the bitter end. There's nothing wrong with defending your beliefs. [This message has been edited by GiggleGirl (edited 23 March 2004).] IP: Logged |
homesick2 Member Posts: 220 |
posted 23 March 2004 04:59 PM
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Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 23 March 2004 05:03 PM
homesick2 = homesick1? IP: Logged |
EgyptianDoc77 Member Posts: 276 |
posted 23 March 2004 06:21 PM
gigglegirl thank you dear for support and sweetness u showed and much concern to reply to a wierdo, ur really a sweet one, and iam sorry if he offended ur soft feelings with some evil words but dont take wierdos words into much consideration.. plz be safe ------------------ IP: Logged |
Lukoshko Member Posts: 279 |
posted 23 March 2004 07:01 PM
quote: Yes GG is really a very sweet creature. But jaguar is more sweet. hehe IP: Logged |
katrina Member Posts: 699 |
posted 23 March 2004 10:53 PM
quote: Poor thing, Tigerlilly. I think we probably should not have even asked you about it all since you are still disturbed by the relationship. Sorry if it opened an old wound. I hope you are truly happy in your marriage raising wonderful children with the husband who loves you and appreciates you. k kat IP: Logged |
CATTIE Junior Member Posts: 14 |
posted 24 March 2004 06:21 AM
WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM GOSSIP EXACTLY ? I ASK OPINION FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES IN LIFE AND WHO CAN ONLY TELL ME WHAT THEY THINK. AFTER WHAT I DO WITH THEIR OPINION IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM. BUT I RESPECT THE OPINION OF EACH ONE HERE WHO DARES TO ANSWER ME !
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CATTIE Junior Member Posts: 14 |
posted 24 March 2004 07:20 AM
Salam Doctor ! Sukran for your answer ! I really wonder if someone can change. Otherwise I must say you that I really fall in love with Egypt. When I was a kid I wanted to be Egyptolog but life made it different, but on my way again I found Egypt now . But it is not an old lost civilization that I like now it is a living country where people live and love ! Take care of you doctor !!
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Tigerlily Member Posts: 436 |
posted 24 March 2004 07:21 AM
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CATTIE Junior Member Posts: 14 |
posted 24 March 2004 07:24 AM
Salut Isabelle ! Yes I am french and living in Paris !
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GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 24 March 2004 09:45 AM
quote: Thank you for saying that. It is nice to know someone thinks I am sweet rather than a slut. As to taking his words into consideration...I do. It upsets me that people can think like that and be so offensive towards another person. Once again, thanks IP: Logged |
Isabelle Junior Member Posts: 18 |
posted 24 March 2004 11:21 AM
quote: salut cattie yes iam fascinated by egypt, i will go this summer in first time. i wish you to be happy and enjoy life and yes there is so good egyptian people in forum which like you say give good impression , iam happy i will go may be we can talk n french in email isabelle IP: Logged |
GiggleGirl Member Posts: 293 |
posted 24 March 2004 01:35 PM
Just a note to say Thank you also to Shumza for deleting those awful messages. I'm very glad that you do not tolerate such people!! IP: Logged |
carina Member Posts: 62 |
posted 24 March 2004 01:38 PM
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