We came to Egypt before, so we have had all the tourist stuff before. In the mean while we became really excited about Egypt end have some good friends over there. Last visit (last week) we both got very ill. Probably we ate something wrong in the hotel, during our first few days. We were lucky to spend the rest of our week in the house of our friend in El Gourna. The first two days we were at a wedding of a friend in Aswan. It was good to be there. As they are rather traditional Muslem, it was quite an experience for us. We’ve seen lawyers and doctors (male and female), and how their position towards one another is, as soon as they marry. The public life of a married woman seems so different from what we’re used to see up here in Europe. But as Ann (my wife) spended some time with the women, she told me that they’re totally different amongst each other in private life as they are in public life.
And they asked her a lot about our customs as well. As we have 5 children, she got some respect… until we confused them by telling our story. I’m divorced and have 3 children (and financially support my former wife), Ann was divorced and has 2 children. We live together now, bought a house together and raise our children without being married officially. To them it seemed not right, until Ann explained them that we can live as if we were married, without signing a kind of marriage contract in Belgium.
What surprised me most, is how open minded they were towards another situation in another culture. Just like we tried to understand their feelings and position, so they did towards us. As we got home, we came to one conclusion: you can show respect for another culture (and you should do so), but as you’re not part of it, you can never understand it.
Why do I write this here?
I hope to open an informative discussion on differences in different cultures