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Originally posted by habedu:
fairyDust ..
loving some one doesn't mean that he's the one for ya ...
you may love many .. but not one of them is the one for you ..
I think that like Adam and Eve ,, there is only one for every one ,, one that has been born to complete him ,, and when you find this one there will be spiritual connection between you and him , or her

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[This message has been edited by gonewiththewind (edited 02 April 2005).]

Yes I believe in this slippery concept because I believe truth, love and god are all one in the same thing, each just being a different perspective of such. Much has been written and even researched on the connectivity of all of creation. It is spoken of in the Holy Quran and every other religious text. This to me I guess is "true love" and if one can embrace it, then true love is possible infinitely.

Everything we experience is a reflection of our own thoughts and feelings. If you believe true love exists only once in a lifetime, chances are very good this is what your experience will be. You have already "decided" per se. Of course, sometimes one is proven wrong too!

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Originally posted by habedu:
my stich heart ,, I agree with ya ,
true is a striking feeling ,,it takes you to the unresnable land ,, you'll do evcery thing that you fel you can never do it,,,
it very strong feeling
for you samia , I'm sory for your lost ,,if it was yur true soulmate..
gonewiththewind ,, if your soulmate gonewith the wind ,,,lol .. you'll be able to love again but not as firm as the for your soulmate..
lemme declare something ,, real love comes only once ,, in my openien ,, but that doesn't say that you can't love any body else ,, sure you can ,, but it would be slightly different ,, ,, you'll controlling every thing,,,

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Originally posted by mysticheart:

Exactly, it is never the same again as your true love, never ever.

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Originally posted by JYREETA:
HI HABEDU,IM 30,AND ONLY BEEN IN LOVE ONCE.THERE WERE TIMES BEFORE THEN THAT I THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE,BUT ONCE THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED,I KNEW I WAS NOT.IT WAS ONLY INFATUATION.I DON'T KNOW IF YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE MORE THAN ONCE,SINCE IT HASNT HAPPENED TO ME MORE THAN ONCE,BUT WHAT DOES THE WOMAN OR MAN DO WHEN THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER DIES OR LEAVES OR DIVORCES THEM?I'M SURE MOST OF THEM MOVE ON AND FIND ANOTHER LOVE. IT WOULD BE SAD TO NEVER FALL IN LOVE AGAIN,OR TO NEVER HAVE LOVED IN THE FIRST PLACE.DON'T YOU THINK,HABEDU?

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Another example of True Love would be probably between the person and the God, but even this love is incomplete and only spiritual so I am saying again, reality of life did not present me with any evidence that True Love is possible ( both ways ), and even if it is - it's only from 1 hour to the next, it's not something fixed forever, and usually even if it happenes, it usually ends tragically.

My real love is currently on his way to NewYork. He is properly reading my letter now in where I am warning him- Dare he just thinks about it!!.

I remember, when i met him..he told me,that he love me...and we was just met...not even know each others..i asked,what is love..
I didnt know yet..
Maybe after one year living together, i was having feeling...that this could be real,,,
NOw after 3.5years together, i'm sure...this is so real love,than it can be..

There was times,that was very difficoult..for me,to leave my family,my country,my normal and safe life...
take man from different kind of religion,country,culture...
There was problems..
But we solve it..Always together,looking for our future,togehter..we never fight,we always go for same way in our minds..we just want to make each others happy..what ever it takes..
Anything else was sure in our life, but it was sure,we cant live without each others..

So here i am...our life continue as honeymoon..
i cant understand, why this happen...why we are so lucky to find each others..

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HOWEVER! Doesn't it make sense to believe that you are more likely to meet one again the more you travel, the more people you meet and the more you are open to opportunity?

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Originally posted by puppy:

There was times,that was very difficoult..for me,to leave my family,my country,my normal and safe life...
take man from different kind of religion,country,culture...
There was problems..
But we solve it..Always together,looking for our future,togehter..we never fight,we always go for same way in our minds..we just want to make each others happy..what ever it takes..
Anything else was sure in our life, but it was sure,we cant live without each others..

So here i am...our life continue as honeymoon..
i cant understand, why this happen...why we are so lucky to find each others..

If this love end someday,and it will...at least when we death..I think there will never come anybody else special for me. But maybe there come somebody, who is some other way special..[/B]

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hi, I was just passing through this site today and it got to my attention. I must say your topics are very interesting maybe cause I am very curious to know how other people think about topics like these and how is life and culture in egypt.

So I hope I am not introding when I will write my own opinion on true love.

There are many types of love in life and thats why we spend most of our lives looking for it. through centuries poets and writers and profets and even julius cesar made his comments on love. Through the beginning of our birth we seek love. When you grow older and there is no mother or father to protect you from all that is happening in this world all from lying deceiving,betraying and not to even mention wars. you feel like you need shelter from all this, you need a place you need to feel safe and most important you need someone to give you hope. When we are young we look desperatly for someone to love for someone to give all those feelings that you keep inside. You need to have your own "romeo & juliet" novel and as it ended tragically in the novel it ends tragically with that love too.

As we humans need our six senses to live fully in our life, so will true love need some other basics then what we are used of hearing about in shakespears poetry and in Abdelhalims songs. There has to be a connection mindly and spritiually. You have to understand eachother. you have to understand your partner in love better than his own mother does and better then he does himself. and vica versa. There has to be some religous understanding between the two. and at the end there must be sacrifice, faithfullness and trust. you wont know if what you feel is true love untill you have grown old with that person and been through many hard tests and survived them all together. Life gives us many tests that are very hard to get passed and one of them is to see if we can make that simple love grow into true love.

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Originally posted by puppy:
mysticheart, ur story touch me very much.

Life is wonderfull, when u find ur truelove,soulmate...But it makes me scared.. this man in my life,he is my everything...but if something happen to him..it will be also end of my life..Why i cant just be happy...why must always think bad things..
All my feelings for this man..and after that,nothing..i will be empty..without heart,without soul,without mind..
please dear God, dont take him from me..i dont want be selffish,but i need him so badly.
Is it normal feel like this?

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Originally posted by Karah_Mia:
Guys, have you ever thought that many people are not capable of loving at all yet they can be excellent actors in making others believe they are 'truly in love'? I have.

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I just read this and i know exactly how you feel. Been there, done that. and the worst part is ,it make you doubt every humanbeing you will meet in the future. And you wonder about all those years that past by with him ...was it all an act? those people diserve an oscar dont you think? But I think there is a reason for that God let us meet those kind of people and fall in love with them.. Maybe it will make us understand the value of love in the future and the value of faithfullness and trust. cause we always seem to take it for granted. And these experiences should make us feel stronger and more prepared to live in this world, cause if we like it or not there are many liers and many betrayers, but there are few people in this world who make this life valuable to live. And those who we will continue thinking when we get old and grumpy