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Nefertity
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Egyptian man married now an egyptian girl, because of the families (Culture).
He's together since 4 years with an foreign woman and they love eachother.
they agree toegether he marry (because of a situation not to change) and after he will divorce.......

Please: Not only bad impression, I've got them a lot about stories like this.
Please real possible chances fora situation like this with answers by feelings, not to forget in name of love

Peace to all


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Sorry to say but the chances of him divorce the girl are very slim. If he is going to divorce her then why is he marrying her. Kids perhaps. Then sorry but he will never leave her.

Thats just my views but I have heard the same story many times.


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Hi Kenzie
With your view I guess you are right.
But i know there was no way out, to NOT marry her, that's why.
He loves the foreign and not the egyptian....can stories like this (with happy end) become true? I hope...inshalla

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I dont think that any european can accept another wife. I know I would become crazy with jealousy. Some people can adapt but very few, I know couldn't.

Is the girl someone from his family. How old is he and the girl.


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Pleaes write me direct on:
Susanne.Geissler@gkb.ch

Looking forward to hear from you


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I know many stories like this. Alot of cases I know are with older women that have married Egyptian men the same age and already married to Egyptian woman with kids. So then they will be the second wife. I have seen a few cases like this and some of them work.

However, in the case of an older woman being with a younger Egyptian man who is not yet married (sounds hard to follow i know). Then the chances of happiness are slimmer. It is natural for a person to want kids and especially in Egypt it is important for the families.


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I have sent you an email.

I will be back on line in about an hour.


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I have sent you an email too. Hope it helps

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Nefertity,

I will be brutally honest, in a positive way for your benefit;

The man was totally unfair to you, and is going to be totally unfair to his new bride, IF in fact he will divorce her.

The bottom line is, if he can easily divorce one, he can easily divorce another one.

It would have been more 'manly' to face the situation head-on, and be honest about everything from the beginning.

I don't buy the 'culture' justification.

My only advice to you is MOVE ON!

If he offers to marry you also, as a second wife, it is your personal choice to accept or not. I do not like to share the man I love with another woman, so I can't really be helpful in regards with this issue.

Best regards and best wishes,

Monica


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Originally posted by Nefertity:
Egyptian man married now an egyptian girl, because of the families (Culture).
He's together since 4 years with an foreign woman and they love eachother.
they agree toegether he marry (because of a situation not to change) and after he will divorce.......

Please: Not only bad impression, I've got them a lot about stories like this.
Please real possible chances fora situation like this with answers by feelings, not to forget in name of love

Peace to all



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Do what is right for you. After knowing your story I understand that you are in a difficult position. Hope mine and Akshar information helped.

Take care


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