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mmscairo2003@yahoo.com
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hi,
im new to this but anyway im inlove with eygptian man he is doctor there in eygpt he will get his degree in march i went to see him in april and didnt want to leave but came home coz of my kids im in the middle of divorce and cant wait to marry him i no its crazy but anyway im worried about him having to go to military but i thought if he married me im a u.s citizen he would be exempt but he says no im not sure wt to do im dying to see him and he also my mom nows wt happend how i went to see him and i lied she says i cant go she is worried for me. i love him and we cry together on phone all the time he wants me to come jst even to see him and if i cant marry him at that time he doesnt care. also i heard i cant marry him without being present nor him either. i need advice. thanks

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Originally posted by mmscairo2003@yahoo.com:
hi,
im new to this but anyway im inlove with eygptian man he is doctor there in eygpt he will get his degree in march i went to see him in april and didnt want to leave but came home coz of my kids im in the middle of divorce and cant wait to marry him i no its crazy but anyway im worried about him having to go to military but i thought if he married me im a u.s citizen he would be exempt but he says no im not sure wt to do im dying to see him and he also my mom nows wt happend how i went to see him and i lied she says i cant go she is worried for me. i love him and we cry together on phone all the time he wants me to come jst even to see him and if i cant marry him at that time he doesnt care. also i heard i cant marry him without being present nor him either. i need advice. thanks

Grow up first. Cool it. Your married, just waiting to hook up with someone. Take a breather, and wait. Your willing to disrupt your kids life, for some stud. CHILL OUT

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I agree with crazylobo, you need to put your children as your first priority.. it must be very difficult having their parents go through a divorce, and then to have their mother get married so quickly doesn't sound fair to them. If it is love, as you say, between you and the egyptian man then there is no need to rush.. take more time to get to know him (i would recommend to wait a year), take time to come to terms with the divorce and to help your kids through it - they will need you to be there for them. I wish you all the best

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Originally posted by crazylobo:
Grow up first. Cool it. Your married, just waiting to hook up with someone. Take a breather, and wait. Your willing to disrupt your kids life, for some stud. CHILL OUT

Couldn't have put it better.

I would also like to say I am a bit sick of reading so many women wanting to get men out of going into the army.

IT IS THEIR DUTY TO THEIR COUNTRY.

I wish women would stop trying to make these men into shirkers, let them do their duty.

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I agree Penny I am proud my husband did not shirk his duty and did his army service.

mmscairo I have to agree with everything that has been said to you. If your doctor has only just got his degree he is certinly not earning much and may not even have a job yet. He needs to get established in his career. As a university graduate he will not serve that long in the army maybe only a few months.

In the meantime you to resolve your divorce situation, get your kids on an even keel after the divorce.

If your marriage is meant to be waiting for a bit will do it no harm.

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Originally posted by Penny:

IT IS THEIR DUTY TO THEIR COUNTRY.

No it's not, not in any way shape or form. It's a disaster and a complete waste of time. not to mention the tax payer's hard earned money.

It's the Law and anyone able to avoid joining the army in a legal way should do so.

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Hi,
Thanks for ur answer to my question i dnt no why everyone is so against women marrying men from egypt and taking them from army. Some ppl are so stupid[

QUOTE]Originally posted by Automatic For The People:

No it's not, not in any way shape or form. It's a disaster and a complete waste of time. not to mention the tax payer's hard earned money.

It's the Law and anyone able to avoid joining the army in a legal way should do so.[/QUOTE]

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Just wondering how old he really is.... supposed to be a doctor and yet is still eligible for the army ? Sounds fishy to me... or another case of baby snatching !

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Ge Ge
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I really do not think you need to ask any of us what to do, do you.

Because really you know the answer for yourself.

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First of all a man does not call a relationship a relationship he refers to it as that time when me and Suzie was doing it on a semi-regular basis When a relationship ends a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends and she will write a poem titled All Men Are Idiots Then she will get on with her life A man has a little more trouble letting go Six months after the break-up at 3:00 am on a Saturday night he will call and say I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life and I'll never forgive you and I hate you and you're a total floozy But I want you to know there's always a chance for us This is known as the I Hate You/I Love You drunken phone call that 99% of all men have made at least once There are community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need alas these classes rarely prove effective

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Now what's missing? The punctuation you freak! I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

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IF he really is a Dr. then he can work for the goverment for two years instead of the military.

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Originally posted by mmscairo2003@yahoo.com:
hi,
im new to this but anyway im inlove with eygptian man he is doctor there in eygpt he will get his degree in march i went to see him in april and didnt want to leave but came home coz of my kids im in the middle of divorce and cant wait to marry him i no its crazy but anyway im worried about him having to go to military but i thought if he married me im a u.s citizen he would be exempt but he says no im not sure wt to do im dying to see him and he also my mom nows wt happend how i went to see him and i lied she says i cant go she is worried for me. i love him and we cry together on phone all the time he wants me to come jst even to see him and if i cant marry him at that time he doesnt care. also i heard i cant marry him without being present nor him either. i need advice. thanks

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daria1975
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ROFL!!!!!

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First of all a man does not call a relationship a relationship he refers to it as that time when me and Suzie was doing it on a semi-regular basis When a relationship ends a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends and she will write a poem titled All Men Are Idiots Then she will get on with her life A man has a little more trouble letting go Six months after the break-up at 3:00 am on a Saturday night he will call and say I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life and I'll never forgive you and I hate you and you're a total floozy But I want you to know there's always a chance for us This is known as the I Hate You/I Love You drunken phone call that 99% of all men have made at least once There are community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need alas these classes rarely prove effective

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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
First of all a man does not call a relationship a relationship he refers to it as that time when me and Suzie was doing it on a semi-regular basis When a relationship ends a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends and she will write a poem titled All Men Are Idiots Then she will get on with her life A man has a little more trouble letting go Six months after the break-up at 3:00 am on a Saturday night he will call and say I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life and I'll never forgive you and I hate you and you're a total floozy But I want you to know there's always a chance for us This is known as the I Hate You/I Love You drunken phone call that 99% of all men have made at least once There are community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need alas these classes rarely prove effective

lol this was funny.
so what you're saying (basically) is that
women have sudden hurt and men take a little longer to realize what they're feeling...hmm...that sounds about right

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so what you're saying (basically) is that women have sudden hurt and men take a little longer to realize what they're feeling?

NO Noor, what I'm saying (basically) is that PERIODS AND COMMAS ARE NOT A LUXURY!!

(Of course that was not addressed to you)

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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
First of all a man does not call a relationship a relationship he refers to it as that time when me and Suzie was doing it on a semi-regular basis When a relationship ends a woman will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends and she will write a poem titled All Men Are Idiots Then she will get on with her life A man has a little more trouble letting go Six months after the break-up at 3:00 am on a Saturday night he will call and say I just wanted to let you know you ruined my life and I'll never forgive you and I hate you and you're a total floozy But I want you to know there's always a chance for us This is known as the I Hate You/I Love You drunken phone call that 99% of all men have made at least once There are community colleges that offer courses to help men get over this need alas these classes rarely prove effective

Hehe that is sooo true!!
hey mykingdom, ever considered being Dr.Love

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Originally posted by mmscairo2003@yahoo.com:
hi,
im new to this but anyway im inlove with eygptian man he is doctor there in eygpt he will get his degree in march i went to see him in april and didnt want to leave but came home coz of my kids im in the middle of divorce and cant wait to marry him i no its crazy but anyway im worried about him having to go to military but i thought if he married me im a u.s citizen he would be exempt but he says no im not sure wt to do im dying to see him and he also my mom nows wt happend how i went to see him and i lied she says i cant go she is worried for me. i love him and we cry together on phone all the time he wants me to come jst even to see him and if i cant marry him at that time he doesnt care. also i heard i cant marry him without being present nor him either. i need advice. thanks

u are in a rebound...take ur time. i left my own experience posted as a reply in the topic 'im about to marry my egyptian bf' by carolina. read it and weep. my egyptian husband fled to the states from the army which forces certain men to join. they cant be drafted after the age of 30. he can marry u for citizen, but even with that he canoot get back to egypt unless he is a us citizen as well which takes 5 years to accomplish and a written test which if he cannot read or write english, forget it. be careful.

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Gaza
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how did you meet at first and hoe did your relationship develope in such away ?!

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I can't believe the body is not even cool on your marriage and you are flipping out over this guy. Your first husband is lucky to be getting rid of you. Good luch...you'll need it.

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