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Hello every body ... i missed you all so much
I think .. from my own point of view Egyptian man is the most desired man on planet why ??
For this simple reasons:
jealous: more than any others ( damo 7ami) generous: Don't think to pay for any thing could make his life partner happy and cool funny: make you laugh all the time Responsible for you: take care of you and always look after you
The Most Important thing is that he like to be treated as MAN not any thing else
a word is a word and should be listened and due to this eastern Islamic culture he is desired and should be
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Probably means has no understanding of housework!!
lol ,r u married to an egyptian & suffering of that? i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Probably means has no understanding of housework!!
lol ,r u married to an egyptian & suffering of that? i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
One of them? I didn't know any existed.
No seriously, mine actually takes out the trash and brings the laundry in from the line from time to time. Otherwise his idea of housework is moving his pile of clothes from one place to another. Posts: 13440 | Registered: Feb 2006
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Ah but does he say hes taken out the trash for you! and brought in the washing for you!
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quote:Originally posted by esso7:
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Probably means has no understanding of housework!!
lol ,r u married to an egyptian & suffering of that? i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
One of them? I didn't know any existed.
No seriously, mine actually takes out the trash and brings the laundry in from the line from time to time. Otherwise his idea of housework is moving his pile of clothes from one place to another.
4 me he does lots of house work like that, i help by my feelings (eat and sleep) thatsmy house work
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Ah but does he say hes taken out the trash for you! and brought in the washing for you!
ohhh yes, he has to unless I've already given him a standing ovation and thrown flowers at his feet and thanked him with tears...
But seriously, he does all of the shopping, works six days a week from 6:00 a.m. until 7:00 p.m. and never complains.
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quote:Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers:
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Ah but does he say hes taken out the trash for you! and brought in the washing for you!
ohhh yes, he has to unless I've already given him a standing ovation and thrown flowers at his feet and thanked him with tears...
my mother yestarday wa so happy that after i had my iftar i took my dish to the kitchen to be washed ,improvements ,i went the super market too buy some stuff ,she thinks i am preparing 4 marriage
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That is nice, after cooking for hours when people help to bring in dishes it's such a relief. Now just wash the dishes and you'll be PERFECT! Posts: 13440 | Registered: Feb 2006
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quote:Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: That is nice, after cooking for hours when people help to bring in dishes it's such a relief. Now just wash the dishes and you'll be PERFECT!
i offered Jean(member here) if she prepared me a good meal ,i will wash all the dishes probably they will be broken 2 ,inshallah next Ramadan will think of that step
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Ofcourse you dont esso, you have a mum to do all that for you I assume!
yes thanx god ,she just travelled today and i already miss her
She will probaly be back real soon. She knows her "baby" would starve to death and her house look like a warzone if she left you alone for too long Posts: 528 | From: Denmark | Registered: Dec 2006
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap!
no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap!
no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
I think you should forget about your aspirations for a foreign girl misho, we dont tolerate that kind of laziness in a man . It's like smucks said, her husband works hard and still makes an effort for her comfort and shows his appreciation for her..Thats the kind of men that foreign women like Posts: 1121 | From: Too crazy to look at a freakin map to find out.. | Registered: Sep 2006
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
We both do the housework together - when he's home. And he does a good job in helping out: He cleans up the table, brings the trash out, changes the diaper of our toddler (incl. the sh*tty ones!), he even folds laundry. He knows to operate the dishwasher and the washing machine without any further damage. Yup, I got my man trained! He
And that's what you need: TRAINING. Although your mother did a grave mistake in the way she raised you it's never too late for you to learn how to do things yourself, esso7, whether it is to help out in the household, to cook or else. Don't rely on others, become independent, simply do it yourself!
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"The Most Important thing is that he like to be treated as MAN not any thing else"
I think this means that he can't be "whipped." Who wants a guy that can be nagged all the time anyway? I think a man can be a man and still be helpful around the house. I certainly don't want to marry a slug! There should be a balance. Just a few thoughts.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tigerlily: We both do the housework together - when he's home. And he does a good job in helping out: He cleans up the table, brings the trash out, changes the diaper of our toddler (incl. the sh*tty ones!), he even folds laundry. He knows to operate the dishwasher and the washing machine without any further damage.
Come on Tigerlily, you just say this to make other ladies jealous Admit it! No, just kidding My husband sometimes does a household task too and always does the cooking when we have guests. But he never brings kids to school and never goes to the supermarket. But I don't mind, then I can CHOOSE in the supermarkets myself... lol
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quote:Originally posted by desertgirl: Come on Tigerlily, you just say this to make other ladies jealous Admit it! No, just kidding My husband sometimes does a household task too and always does the cooking when we have guests. But he never brings kids to school and never goes to the supermarket. But I don't mind, then I can CHOOSE in the supermarkets myself... lol
No I am serious, desertgirl, on his days off he brings the kids to school, picks them up and gets them ice-cream on the way home (which I don't like but that's his treat for the kids), he does go shopping f.e. he went this morning because I had some things missing for preparing lunch but usually he drops me off as I am not driving, he also goes and picks up breadrolls from the bakery every Sunday morning (we have this tradition for a long time). And he knows all three in-door swimmingpools from the inside and diverse playgrounds in our local area! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Yeah and unfortunately he's gone now since the afternoon and will not be back before Friday evening. Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Sorry Girls but Egyptian man is a kind of Package , there are possitive and non possitive things and you have too choose which package you preffer
Egyptian Or Europen or .........etc
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap!
no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
I think you should forget about your aspirations for a foreign girl misho, we dont tolerate that kind of laziness in a man . It's like smucks said, her husband works hard and still makes an effort for her comfort and shows his appreciation for her..Thats the kind of men that foreign women like
1st i am not misho ,2nd i am not searching a foreign girl hehe ,last i think after marriage i will change ,at least hope so
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well i guess people who live alone do it all for them self i wash my dishes or i wont find any to eat one i clean the house well some times but most serious part i cook for my self i have aproblem in people cooking for me as i dont like mistakes in my food like food tast werid when u hungry thats like so bad lol and i really enjoy tasting food while cooking it u get to do it your own way buying your stuff out of the super market is great but i use alist as my memory suck and even with the list still i forget stuff i dont think i would be ok with any one in my house i like certain order certain food grilled only i like to listen to music at my house all time i hate noise which include people talking / tv lol again only people understand this would be the people who live alone from some time amr
-------------------- Give a man a fish and he eats for a day. Teach him how to fish and you get rid of him all weekend. -- Zenna Schaffer Some folks are wise and some otherwise. -- Josh Billings Posts: 1499 | From: Dark Side of the Moon | Registered: Aug 2007
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Not only people who live alone understand what you mean I have "a full house" and sometimes I need to be alone too. Then I listen to my favourite music or go running on the beach. When I come back, I feel reborn and can handle the 100 questions in 2 minutes from my kid again. Posts: 2932 | From: Just now and then | Registered: Nov 2006
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap!
no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
I think you should forget about your aspirations for a foreign girl misho, we dont tolerate that kind of laziness in a man . It's like smucks said, her husband works hard and still makes an effort for her comfort and shows his appreciation for her..Thats the kind of men that foreign women like
1st i am not misho ,2nd i am not searching a foreign girl hehe ,last i think after marriage i will change ,at least hope so
OOPS, My Bad Esso!! Thinking about 2 many things at once Second, I thought somewhere I read you were looking for a foreign woman and I was just giving you a little helpful hint. Third, If you dont change before marriage voluntarily then it will affect the future of your marriage. A happy wife is the best assest to have, keep her happy, appreciated and life will go so much easier !
Posts: 1121 | From: Too crazy to look at a freakin map to find out.. | Registered: Sep 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Sex And The City , Who Cares: i dont think i would be ok with any one in my house
Amr, I really like what I read here. You do things by yourself, you are independent. And believe me one day when the right girl comes your way you won't mind her presence, her talking and laughing..... infact you don't want it to stop! And many things just make more fun if you do them together! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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quote:Originally posted by esso7: i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
OMG.... aren't you ashamed to admit this here so openly? Seriously in which century you are living?! I really hope the day you get married you will end up with a woman with a backbone who will not accept this crap!
no i am not ashamed ,at least i am not denying the truth, i think ur husband does lots of work as u are alot on es (joking)
I think you should forget about your aspirations for a foreign girl misho, we dont tolerate that kind of laziness in a man . It's like smucks said, her husband works hard and still makes an effort for her comfort and shows his appreciation for her..Thats the kind of men that foreign women like
no it wasnt me who were searching a foreign wife,i dnt care 4 the nationality of my wife and i am begiening to help at house a little ,just need some time
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quote:Originally posted by Sex And The City , Who Cares: i dont think i would be ok with any one in my house
Amr, I really like what I read here. You do things by yourself, you are independent. And believe me one day when the right girl comes your way you won't mind her presence, her talking and laughing..... infact you don't want it to stop! And many things just make more fun if you do them together!
thanks first you will never find the right one if you kept looking for her
and yes i agree but my point i dont want any one to baby sit me nor i baby sit her we share life togather
and again i wont get married to have some one do dishes or cook for me so help me god i hope god give me the health to do my own stuff till i die amr
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quote:Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers:
quote:Originally posted by esso7:
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Probably means has no understanding of housework!!
lol ,r u married to an egyptian & suffering of that? i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
One of them? I didn't know any existed.
No seriously, mine actually takes out the trash and brings the laundry in from the line from time to time. Otherwise his idea of housework is moving his pile of clothes from one place to another.
Just curious did your husband think taking the trash out was a guy or a girl chore? I am wondering if the same ideas here as to what is a typical man-duty is the same as over there. For example I would want him to take out the trash, mow the lawn, do home improvement type things like stain the deck, etc. Is this normal for guys to do in Egypt?
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Quote : Just curious did your husband think taking the trash out was a guy or a girl chore? I am wondering if the same ideas here as to what is a typical man-duty is the same as over there. For example I would want him to take out the trash, mow the lawn, do home improvement type things like stain the deck, etc. Is this normal for guys to do in Egypt? ---------------------------------------
I'm patiently waiting for someone to answer!
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quote:Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers:
quote:Originally posted by esso7:
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Probably means has no understanding of housework!!
lol ,r u married to an egyptian & suffering of that? i am one of the egyptian guys that dont help in the house at all
One of them? I didn't know any existed.
No seriously, mine actually takes out the trash and brings the laundry in from the line from time to time. Otherwise his idea of housework is moving his pile of clothes from one place to another.
Just curious did your husband think taking the trash out was a guy or a girl chore? I am wondering if the same ideas here as to what is a typical man-duty is the same as over there. For example I would want him to take out the trash, mow the lawn, do home improvement type things like stain the deck, etc. Is this normal for guys to do in Egypt?
I think so, at least from what I've seen it is. He does consider taking out the trash the mans duty, good thing, too. Now if I could somehow make washing dishes a manly thing...
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Don't you all have dishwasher and laundry machines? We are not anymore living in the 50's, you know?! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Looking back on things Instead of my ex putting out the rubbish, Would have been better to put the ex out with the rubbish!
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Looking back on things Instead of my ex putting out the rubbish, Would have been better to put the ex out with the rubbish!
Funny girl!! Posts: 2932 | From: Just now and then | Registered: Nov 2006
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