If you have lots of free time , there is a whole discussion about a or an hotel.
(Yeahhh, there are other forums than ES )
But we agree; we want a beautiful hotel with cute waiters and nice swimmingpools. Anything else?
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shouldent it be...... only joking.. glad discussion is over.... but cute waiters and swimming pool sound good... see you there !!
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quote:Originally posted by nearlyfellforit: and all with a lovely welsh accent ...lol...xxx
Hey, if you stay on here long enough on ES you might wanna link up with member Young AT Heart who should be back online after the holidays. She's from Wales too!
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MARHABA (Welcome) to the notorious ES club - now it's official!!
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Welcome nearly... Don't worry about LML, she does this occasionally. Just remember "this too shall pass".
I feel a bit cheated cause I never got an "OFFICIAL" welcome....
But I'm almost at 1000 post so y'all can make it up to me with a big celebration!
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Don't worry, I will pretend to be surprised when I see it again...
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aaah Misho, Don't frighten her too bad. What you say is true but the other side is that you can make some really nice friends.
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Welcome to ES Nearlyfellforit, Sorry i'm a bit late, I believe you are who you say you are and sorry you met an arse, hey ho, new year, better luck next time...VB's words are sooooo right, it happens to us all, and those it hasn't happened to yet are just lucky
Me - I just go round and round on the merry go round so you're smarter than me !!! (hysterical laughter at myself!)
Smucks - I don't see they are the same at all?? I think they all write so differently, Tina never understands a word I write!
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-------------------- "Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts." (Sign hanging in Einstein's office at Princeton) Leap and the Net will Appear. Posts: 3891 | From: No good deed goes unpunished. | Registered: May 2007
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smuckers tells that there is a question in another thread for me.... habeeby and tinakamel, well i cant find it ..... help.... cos i cant find it ....
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well ok... but because i am a real person i have a real meed to prove it ....lol any way i would like to hear from those who think i should report him.... and why, and also those who think i should not report him.... and why..
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Well I think you SHOULDN'T report him, because if you do, then he is still in your thoughts and you are still concerned what happens to him. If it doesn't turn out how you want it to, you will be left feeling bitter AND you will want to keep hearing all the details to make sure you know whats going on, makes it harder to move on. Better to just focus on moving on and putting it in the past, in time he will dig his own grave - they always do
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what do u want to report (nearlyfellforit) they are past masters at wriggling out o everything...what i have done is taken up kick boxing and got a pic of him on the sack i kick......gives me great pleasure and get rid of the tension.....good and bad days but life goes on....at least if i remember rightly you didnt give him any money....i did to my cost.........fake or genuine who will know in the end........so many of them around...........try and move on...........xxxxxxxxxx
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Hi nearlyfellforit, It is quite a while since I have come on here and posted, mainly because I am very busy in my life at the moment and I needed 'my time' to think and learn from my mistakes (if that is what I can call them)! Anyway, I just want to say that I believe we are given these life experiences for a reason, they often make us stronger and just remember don't have any regrets and focus on your life and your future. Take care, Amanda x
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quote:Originally posted by crisálida: Good to see you back Miss Sharm and I'm Glad you're doing well
Thank you, I have always been here even though I have not been posting, thought that it was best to put the past behind me and for me that meant not posting on es for a while Crisalida, What was your user name before?
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quote:Originally posted by crisálida: Well I think you SHOULDN'T report him, because if you do, then he is still in your thoughts and you are still concerned what happens to him. If it doesn't turn out how you want it to, you will be left feeling bitter AND you will want to keep hearing all the details to make sure you know whats going on, makes it harder to move on. Better to just focus on moving on and putting it in the past, in time he will dig his own grave - they always do
Why have another ASS here doing the shittes i say fack him off and paste a carboard on him saying im for rent
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quote:Originally posted by crisálida: Good to see you back Miss Sharm and I'm Glad you're doing well
Thank you, I have always been here even though I have not been posting, thought that it was best to put the past behind me and for me that meant not posting on es for a while Crisalida, What was your user name before?
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quote:Originally posted by WindBetweenEars: Well it could mean Caterpillar
Thank you WindBetweenEars Hello Caterpillar now known as Crisalida, hope all is well with you and your life.
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well i have decided to not report him.. he is going to find it tough any way as he only has four months left on his schengen (correct spelling i think )visa for Greece... so i don't think he can even go back there now.... any way how can he get to Greece from here unless via the same route he came... very dodgy..i will just leave him to his own devices and hope he leaves me to mine... and any way compared to some of you my story is not that interesting, but thanks for all your replies.... (well some of them )
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Hi Miss Sharm, long time no see on this board! HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your children!!
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Hi Miss Sharm, long time no see on this board! HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your children!!
Thank you Tigerlily. As they say it is amazing the difference that a year can make! I wish you and your family all the bst for the new year and I am sure that ES will be a interesting as ever
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quote:Originally posted by nearlyfellforit: well i have decided to not report him.. i will just leave him to his own devices and hope he leaves me to mine... and any way compared to some of you my story is not that interesting, but thanks for all your replies.... (well some of them )
Nearlyfellforit....I think that you have made a good decision and I am sure that he will get what he deserves somewhere along the way, these things normally have a strange way of working out and as we say "what goes around comes around". It doesn't matter if you think that your story wasn't interesting, you thought that it was valid to post it here for advice, unfortunately as you found out there are some on here that want to rip others apart for their actions and experiences. Don't have any regrets for what you got caught up in, it will probably make you stronger and hopefully one day you will be able to laugh about it. New year, new begining
Take care, Amanda x
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thank you... for your lovely reply, I'm sure i am making the right decision too. but hoping he does not try to win me back... he has no chance... but it is hard.... any way as you said new year new start.
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quote:Originally posted by lovingmylife: This story is fake story as most people already know. Don't invest your valuable time and post long messages. The member has multiply nicknames (identities), replies to herself, and is manipulating you.
LOL, I thought it was suspect as well, for 2 reasons: 1. You dont normally see British people typing in the 3 (dot style)...kida.
2. I have never in my life heard of an Orfi marriage conducted in the UK? I mean what for, its legal to live in sin.
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quote:Originally posted by nearlyfellforit: thank you... for your lovely reply, I'm sure i am making the right decision too. but hoping he does not try to win me back... he has no chance... but it is hard.... any way as you said new year new start.
Nearlyfellforit.....I am sure that you will come through all of this. You have to be strong and keep remembering what he has done to hurt you and that he does not deserve to have you. That is not saying that you will not have your bad days when you will want to forgive and forget and maybe try again with him. Keep focused and strong and we are here to listen if you want to talk.
Amanda x
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quote:Originally posted by redseaschool1: LOL, I thought it was suspect as well, for 2 reasons: 1. You dont normally see British people typing in the 3 (dot style)...kida.
I swear... it's not me ... really!!!
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my god you are impossible, i am now typing with no dots, what can i do or say to get you to realize i am a British (welsh) person ? and that i do not have multiple identities, and have not yet replied to my self, but i may have to cos I'm the only one making any sense at the moment. and the three dots were completely unintentional ! (honest)
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quote:Originally posted by redseaschool1: LOL, I thought it was suspect as well, for 2 reasons: 1. You dont normally see British people typing in the 3 (dot style)...kida.
I swear... it's not me ... really!!!
Ya ragel! You're too cute . I know many Europeans type this way, its just uncommon for British people.
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quote:Originally posted by redseaschool1: Ya ragel!
Actually I am a bint!
quote:Originally posted by redseaschool1: You're too cute
If you are a male I see that as a flirt. If you are a female .... well I take it as a simple compliment! Happy New Year to you!!
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and if you look again at my post i said it was a sham done by three of his friends in his flat, to make me think he was a good muslim and that he could not have sex without having this "marrige" thing done, and it would make it allright with allah ! mabey "orfi" is the wrong word ? but this thing is just to ease the concience of muslims when they have sex with women.
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If she's a female take it as a flirt and we'll see where it goes .
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quote:Originally posted by nearlyfellforit: well i have decided to not report him.. he is going to find it tough any way as he only has four months left on his schengen (correct spelling i think )visa for Greece... so i don't think he can even go back there now.... any way how can he get to Greece from here unless via the same route he came... very dodgy..i will just leave him to his own devices and hope he leaves me to mine... and any way compared to some of you my story is not that interesting, but thanks for all your replies.... (well some of them )
And does he work i hope he not get nothing off the state cause i would not be a happy wind if he does if he just has a couple of months on tax payers money .
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