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I really cannot understand why it's needed that a religious leader should have a judgement about what's happening between two people, when they both agree. They don't harm somebody else, so what could be wrong with it? About every possible subject there are written statements, made by people who don't have anything to do with it. It isn't their business, imo!
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Well Islam dictates every single little thing in life. For some reason I believe it's better not to know all kind religious restrictions which sometimes vary within the Muslim world.
What you don't know, not aware of, can't *kill* you. You can't be hold accountable by god if you simply didn't know, right??
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Sorry Micky etc...just writing errors. I ment "is there things coming to sex which are haram between a couple, I was asking and thinking this both muslims and coptics view."
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Well Islam dictates every single little thing in life. For some reason I believe it's better not to know all kind religious restrictions which sometimes vary within the Muslim world.
What you don't know, not aware of, can't *kill* you. You can't be hold accountable by god if you simply didn't know, right??
Like the three monkees: blind, deaf and dumb? Prefering not to know how it is in real, because in the backside of your head you know very well there will be hundreds of rules where you don't agree with... I am not that kind of person. I want to know e v e r y t h i n g, and I think I have the right to make my own opinion about that... It has disadvantages, such a behaviour. More and more I become aware of the fact that I don't want to talk with another dumbass about his aversions against people who are thinking in another way as he is, and are becoming judged as 'wrong'. The jews, the catholics, christians in common, western people etc... I really don't even want to argue with them, because they are so stupid to lable others they don't even know! Egypt more and more has a bad influence on my nerves, it makes me aggressive, once in a while, like GO AWAY!!! Posts: 7202 | From: EU | Registered: Nov 2006
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quote:Originally posted by ?????: I really cannot understand why it's needed that a religious leader should have a judgement about what's happening between two people, when they both agree. They don't harm somebody else, so what could be wrong with it? About every possible subject there are written statements, made by people who don't have anything to do with it. It isn't their business, imo!
quote:Originally posted by Truedevotion: Sorry Micky etc...just writing errors. I meant "is there things coming to sex which are harem between a couple, I was asking and thinking this both Muslims and coptics view."
thats ok no problem what goes on in your own bedroom is your business and no one show know. thats too private to tell others i think
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quote:Sheikh Q: “We are not used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries.
So is the Sheikh saying oral sex was unheard of until the always-so-corrupted Western people introduced it? Is this what he's saying? That the notion of oral sex between a married couple never, never, never happened in a Muslim country until the evil West introduced it? Wuh?
quote: Those Western people are accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse.
I would like to take this opportunity to confirm that Sheikh Q is, indeed, correct. We Western people do get nekkid during sex. Not all the time, though. Sometimes there isn't enough time to get completely and entirely nekkid for sex (these occasions are known as a "quickie") and not all clothing comes off, but most often it is unashamed nekkidity.
quote:These are communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life. So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation.
How did I know the blame for this was somehow, some way, going to be pinned on women?
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Well, glad you could stop by for a visit... Please, take off your shoes and stay a bit... Posts: 3891 | From: No good deed goes unpunished. | Registered: May 2007
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Well Islam dictates every single little thing in life. For some reason I believe it's better not to know all kind religious restrictions which sometimes vary within the Muslim world.
What you don't know, not aware of, can't *kill* you. You can't be hold accountable by god if you simply didn't know, right??
Like the three monkees: blind, deaf and dumb? Prefering not to know how it is in real, because in the backside of your head you know very well there will be hundreds of rules where you don't agree with... I am not that kind of person. I want to know e v e r y t h i n g, and I think I have the right to make my own opinion about that... It has disadvantages, such a behaviour. More and more I become aware of the fact that I don't want to talk with another dumbass about his aversions against people who are thinking in another way as he is, and are becoming judged as 'wrong'. The jews, the catholics, christians in common, western people etc... I really don't even want to argue with them, because they are so stupid to lable others they don't even know! Egypt more and more has a bad influence on my nerves, it makes me aggressive, once in a while, like GO AWAY!!!
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quote:Originally posted by Truedevotion: I have known him for years. We met when I was travelling to Egypt. He was single that time. We are both deep christians and thing which connected us was our belief. We just talked and spend time together when I was there.
His family knows me and his sister sends sms sometimes to me. I was very happy when he told he has found local girl to marry. He is 7 years younger than me but he was anxious to marry.
He says he feels me like a sister and would want me to even come to his sisters wedding on may.
He is sweet, but very naive. I think he feels me somethig between sister and mother. His father died when he was young and I think he liked when someone was listening to his sorrows.
I have been single for 6 years and without sex ( he he personal information) he knows that I have my moral and maybe thats why feels comfortable asking things. He knows I want to find a decent christian man to marry.
I feel him like a little brother. I dont tell my personal things much to him, because I dont feel he is in a same level. We chat or talk maybe once in a two months about what is happening in our lives.
I know that deep and very emotional relationship betwnn man and a woman wouldnt work in a friend base especially if another one is married. It would be not right to the wife. That is why it is easy that he is little childish, I dont feel him as a soulmate or been attracted to him. I know what kind of relationship would hurt his wife. I think when I will see her our friendsip will be more like me and both of them. Not me and this man twosome.
So I truly understand why some of you had doubts what is going on between us...
Well I wouldn't like my husband to be talking about such private things with another woman, who then goes and asks the world what they think about our situation on an open forum. there are some things that should stay private, and I am sure this couple would find their way as many others do without having worldwide opinion.
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quote:Originally posted by Truedevotion: I have known him for years. We met when I was travelling to Egypt. He was single that time. We are both deep christians and thing which connected us was our belief. We just talked and spend time together when I was there.
His family knows me and his sister sends sms sometimes to me. I was very happy when he told he has found local girl to marry. He is 7 years younger than me but he was anxious to marry.
He says he feels me like a sister and would want me to even come to his sisters wedding on may.
He is sweet, but very naive. I think he feels me somethig between sister and mother. His father died when he was young and I think he liked when someone was listening to his sorrows.
I have been single for 6 years and without sex ( he he personal information) he knows that I have my moral and maybe thats why feels comfortable asking things. He knows I want to find a decent christian man to marry.
I feel him like a little brother. I dont tell my personal things much to him, because I dont feel he is in a same level. We chat or talk maybe once in a two months about what is happening in our lives.
I know that deep and very emotional relationship betwnn man and a woman wouldnt work in a friend base especially if another one is married. It would be not right to the wife. That is why it is easy that he is little childish, I dont feel him as a soulmate or been attracted to him. I know what kind of relationship would hurt his wife. I think when I will see her our friendsip will be more like me and both of them. Not me and this man twosome.
So I truly understand why some of you had doubts what is going on between us...
Well I wouldn't like my husband to be talking about such private things with another woman, who then goes and asks the world what they think about our situation on an open forum. there are some things that should stay private, and I am sure this couple would find their way as many others do without having worldwide opinion.
you don't speak al-Arabi do you?
Egyptians talk about sex in slang terms all the time, but family members rarely discuss it.
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what goes on in your own bedroom is your business and no one show know. thats too private to tell others i think
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