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Can you be friends with someone you loved and were in a relationship with before? Is it possible or not? Or is it better to go separate ways and never hear from or see each other again??
Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Me and sophies dad did very well at staying friends for 2 years. We have fallen out now and the damage he has caused i dont think we will ever be able to be friends again.
Other than him and 1 other, i have always stayed friends with my Ex's. I didnt push for it, it just worked out that way.
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If you have children together then you have got to try and stay friends for their sake. The problem is often when new partners come along and cannot accept that friendship. My Ex's new partner made absolutely sure she destroyed our friendship in order to secure her place, she never considered the effect this would have on my son.
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for me its depend if how u separate with each other.. but regarding my experience with an egy guy its not good to be friends after all we just only fighting especially if he knows that im going out with someone..
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Absolutely. But of course it depends on why the relationship failed.
Usually it takes a while for the parameters of the relationship to change from one thing to the other, but yes.
I have some dear friends who are exes - whether it was me or them who broke it up.
Where we are no longer friends it is usually because it has faded over time as some friendships do.
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hell to the no! my ex tries to be friends to me but i just stand there and scowl at him.
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quote:Originally posted by sneaky_girl: we just only fighting especially if he knows that im going out with someone..
That is gross! He doesn't wanna commit to you, gets engaged to a girl from his o2wn country but yet wants to enjoy some funtime with you together and gets jealous if you go out with someone else??
Seriously if I was you I'd not go out with one but at least a dozen people and never ever give him one look again!!
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NO. NO. NO. It's over for a reason. Unless you have children, let it GO.
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Ofcourse you can. An ex of mine from years ago, finished our relationship. Years later he came back to my town and I bumped into him and we had a chat. He told me it hadn't been me just the way he was at that time. I'm glad we made up because 4 months later he was dead! Only 40 years old! Once again life is too short.
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well guys i am about to find out i guess. i really hope he doesnt want to be friends cos i dont think i can
Posts: 3945 | From: ' Res Contr ' Amor non es guirens, lai on sos poders s'atura | Registered: Dec 2007
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quote:Originally posted by sneaky_girl: we just only fighting especially if he knows that im going out with someone..
That is gross! He doesn't wanna commit to you, gets engaged to a girl from his o2wn country but yet wants to enjoy some funtime with you together and gets jealous if you go out with someone else??
Seriously if I was you I'd not go out with one but at least a dozen people and never ever give him one look again!!
yeah, absolutely correct .. at first we are ok though i know he's now engaged we used to go out.. but when he knows that i came late and i went out with someone his now getting angry we're shouting in phone and fighting i dnt knw why his doing it. i think he is selfish he dont want me to be happy
now, im not talking with him and as much as possible i dnt want him to be updated what's going on with me Posts: 49 | From: in the dessert | Registered: Apr 2008
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