I mean generally speaking, in a fight, a relationship, race...etc. We tend to always analyse things based on reasons and consequences, though the middles are what deserve attn.
It's only in the middle that we cant go back. Ends and beginnings can be postponed or even denied..
It's the middle that matters!! I hope this thought helps anyone to start his day concentrating on what we actually started..the middle, what we really have.
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for example if we are talking about any relationship that it is ended. we start by thinking how it starts and then jump to the miserable end . if we think about the middle how wonderful it was and how we were enjoying doing this and that ...., we are often hurting ourselves, because it doesnt end as we wish
May be i am wrong
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Originally posted by ngeg:
I have been thinking why is it that we always concentrate in beginnings and endings of things rather than what really matters...The MIDDLE!I mean generally speaking, in a fight, a relationship, race...etc. We tend to always analyse things based on reasons and consequences, though the middles are what deserve attn.
It's only in the middle that we cant go back. Ends and beginnings can be postponed or even denied..It's the middle that matters!! I hope this thought helps anyone to start his day concentrating on what we actually started..the middle, what we really have.
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Originally posted by ngeg:
I have been thinking why is it that we always concentrate in beginnings and endings of things rather than what really matters...The MIDDLE!I mean generally speaking, in a fight, a relationship, race...etc. We tend to always analyse things based on reasons and consequences, though the middles are what deserve attn.
It's only in the middle that we cant go back. Ends and beginnings can be postponed or even denied..It's the middle that matters!! I hope this thought helps anyone to start his day concentrating on what we actually started..the middle, what we really have.
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Well we always think mainly in the begining of any thing we are going through, in the middle ,It is time when we are trying to fix or sustain our situation and when we fail in that it is just the end which is the result of the second process( the middle); And the circle goes on.
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Originally posted by ngeg:
I have been thinking why is it that we always concentrate in beginnings and endings of things rather than what really matters...The MIDDLE!I mean generally speaking, in a fight, a relationship, race...etc. We tend to always analyse things based on reasons and consequences, though the middles are what deserve attn.
It's only in the middle that we cant go back. Ends and beginnings can be postponed or even denied..It's the middle that matters!! I hope this thought helps anyone to start his day concentrating on what we actually started..the middle, what we really have.
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So true and that is how I am looking on 'the journey'.
Even if things don't work out with my man once we meet up again - I've had a fantastic 3 months of being 'loved up', lost 12kg without effort (after years of trying) and everyone I know says I've been so happy and much more fun, and I'm doing things I would never have dreamed of even 6 months ago (not just in relation to him and Egypt!)
He has bought such happiness into my life that even if we break up I will treasure it forever
Sam on line: you got my point, it's useless to move in a circle that way! And is it possible to grasp middles before ends come?
Lonely: Why talk abt ended realtionship, the whole point is talking, thinking acting and working on it while it's in the middle..and the end could be potponed or denied!
Ya Asoom: It's not wise, it's a mistake i do in my daily life and for a second thought to stop and think..
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Catlover:It's a very good method to work on the middles really, to be grateful for what u have and work on keeping yr happiness regardless of the fear of ends..enjoy yr relationship.Sam on line: you got my point, it's useless to move in a circle that way! And is it possible to grasp middles before ends come?
Lonely: Why talk abt ended realtionship, the whole point is talking, thinking acting and working on it while it's in the middle..and the end could be potponed or denied!
Ya Asoom: It's not wise, it's a mistake i do in my daily life and for a second thought to stop and think..
one can never be in the middle , the middle is always an introduction for a new start, cross roads, and what ever road you choose is a way for an end and a new start as well.
It is never possible to hold what we have,and keep life in a strait line,it is never strait line; cause we are not the only master players.