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he is a very sweet man but how can i be sure he has no other wives i dont want to go there and be wife number four and although i am sure he is not like that my family says i am crazy to go just to visit.can anyone help me decide
Tigerlily Member # 3567
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You posted now several threads about your boyfriend. Listen, just come down, get in touch with him and more importantly get to know him much better via phone/internet. If you are unsure and anyway you don't have the finances to go to visit him right now then push it off. Real love will wait. Just relax and in the meantime get more information about his cultural background, prepare yourself for the trip well and as I said go when you really feel positive about the whole thing. And if you have any questions don't be shy to ask on here and I know you will. Good luck!
mom in america Member # 11657
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thanks tigerlily i am sorry i sound like such a pest but i am so confused
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