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im a muslim girl living in london and have just recently visited egypt.While i was in egypt i met a guy and fell in love. Since coming back to england we have keept in touch and are planing on getting married. Do you think he really loves me or is he only after my british passport? He says he does not want to move to england, but is this not what they all say in the begining? plz help
newcomer Member # 1056
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Heads he really loves you, tails he just wants a British passport
Charm el Feikh? Member # 10243
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welcome to ES neenee. first of all, forget about that poll, you may as well pick the petals off a daisy... 'he loves me... he loves me not'...
if you dont know hun, how can we possibly know?!
get_over_it Member # 11286
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Go with your instincts neenee - but get to know him better before making any big decisions. To be honest, if he does just want the passport, you'll find out soon enough - but it might be too late by then. Everything has to start somewhere, and many of these relationships are of course genuine. This site is full of horror stories of playboys and gigolos, so as long as you have your eyes open from the start, and are not swayed by sweet words, you should be ok - keep your feet on the ground, and think with your head as well as your heart.
What's always puzzled me is what happens when they get the passport, if that's all they want? When they realise that the streets of England are not paved with gold, and a legal ticket over here does not necessarily bring them all the riches they'd been dreaming of?
neenee Member # 11717
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its just that u read so many stories of how egyption men use brithish women, as a muslim girl i dont want to end up like them.has any one got any tips on how i can find out if his love is true?
Charm el Feikh? Member # 10243
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quote:Originally posted by get_over_it: What's always puzzled me is what happens when they get the passport, if that's all they want? When they realise that the streets of England are not paved with gold, and a legal ticket over here does not necessarily bring them all the riches they'd been dreaming of?
DSS
get_over_it Member # 11286
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That's what I'd have thought too, but it's not that easy, Charm. Husbands get a stamp in their visa saying they are not entitled to claim public funds. As far as I know, it's a condition of the visa that the wife has enough to support them without them resorting to government handouts.
Charm el Feikh? Member # 10243
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it doesnt matter... all a bit academic.. if hes homeless hes entitled to help. they will put him in a hostel and he can claim basic levels of social security.
neenee Member # 11717
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i might not be rich, but i do have the means and ways of getting him a visa
get_over_it Member # 11286
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Would you be prepared to go to Egypt if the visa application got rejected?
Charm el Feikh? Member # 10243
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remember this though... just because he wants a passport, doesnt mean he doesnt love you. hes probably dreaming right now of spending the rest of his life in the UK... with YOU babes.
neenee Member # 11717
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well the plan is for me to move to egypt. i really love it there. but then i have heard stories about men who say in the begining that they dont want to move to england but after they change there minds. i think the problem with me is that i read to many stories
get_over_it Member # 11286
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Don't let the bad stuff put you off! Remember, there are lots of happy endings too, but these don't get as much board space as people pouring out their woeful tales of being cheated and lied to.
True - you do hear less often about people who have met and married the man of their dreams and are living happily ever after, but this is possibly because they have better things to do with their life than sitting in front of a computer screen!
Trust your own judgements and be happy! I hope it works for you - wherever you end up! If your man is genuine and loves you and wants to be with you, you'll find a way to make it work out, however long it takes and wherever you end up making your home.
neenee Member # 11717
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ahh thanks charm el feikh? for ur reply, it was very sweet. i hope what u say is true
realman Member # 11349
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Be careful. Most Egyption mes are sweet talkers. Egyption men know that Western women are aware of the fact the Egyption men after foreign passport so to refute that reputation and make women belive they have real love intention they try to make those women they r not after foreign passport which actually they are.
Tigerlily Member # 3567
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So that's why she sould fall in love with you, realman from Dubai?
alresalat Member # 4960
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simply , what is the problem if he love you & after your british passport at the same time? i think u will need him there any way so he is right from the beging BTW the british passport means no thing with out you ( that what iam sure about ) thanks
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: i might not be rich, but i do have the means and ways of getting him a visa
HOW!!!!!!!!!!!pisses me off when i payed loads of dosh and him and to prove he was elgible to come to this country he pissed me off but any way we go through all those procedure and other just waltz in from ECU and is handed a gold ribbon wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww so tell me how u have ways id love to know so when i bring my next one in ,lol ,tips me please
neenee Member # 11717
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I brought my first husband over from pakistain in 6months and every one knows how hard it is to bring some one from there. Did not even have a full time job. But like they say its not what you know but who you know. You can get all sorts of fake doucuments these days. let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
ThePinkCamel Member # 11718
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I have a girlfriend that went to live in egypt - american convert wears niqab. She was looking to get married (completely halal way) and she had plans to never return to USA. It took her 2 years to find a husband that agreed to not go back. Most of the ones she interviewed would say 'what about just for school' and things like this. When she was clear about it, she didn't hear back. Sometimes they didn't mention it in the first interview, but if they even brought it up - it was a no go. That is the least you would have to do to be sure of his intentions. Tell him that you can't sponsor him because of the new rule changes post 911, and that you want to live in Egypt and won't sponsor anyone period, even if you could. See if he sticks around.
Penny Member # 1925
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: I brought my first husband over from pakistain in 6months and every one knows how hard it is to bring some one from there. Did not even have a full time job. But like they say its not what you know but who you know. You can get all sorts of fake doucuments these days. let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
You should be very careful saying something like that on a public message board.
Desperate Housewife Member # 11445
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: I brought my first husband over from pakistain in 6months and every one knows how hard it is to bring some one from there. Did not even have a full time job. But like they say its not what you know but who you know. You can get all sorts of fake doucuments these days. let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
It's because of people like you that legitimately married people experience difficulties obtaining visas. Also you give a bad rep to those law abiding muslims in England trying to counter religous profiling. shameful
neenee Member # 11717
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I never said my marriege was fake, we was married for 5 years and have a kid together. All i was saying that if you wanted some thing so bad then you would do any thing to make it happen. Why should i have had to wait for say 2 years when i could do it quicker
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: I brought my first husband over from pakistain in 6months and every one knows how hard it is to bring some one from there. Did not even have a full time job. But like they say its not what you know but who you know. You can get all sorts of fake doucuments these days. let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
id be carefdul what you say in here youdont who your talking with ..if your doing this kind of stuff dont advertise it ok ,this forum is watched and observed and if dont bother you then you wudnt mind if ur husband is sent back and you go to jail it obviously doesnt bother you ,and actually im joked one is enough for me and i dont need forged documents it people like you that pissed the system up ..
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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quote:Originally posted by Charm el Feikh?: it doesnt matter... all a bit academic.. if hes homeless hes entitled to help. they will put him in a hostel and he can claim basic levels of social security.
nah my husband wrking im in full time carer now we not getting enough to coever us he tryed to apply for family credit and got warned they cud send him home so im going out to wrk as from sept 8th for 3days aweek wrking alnight at a check out just to top up home office always looking and we had a vist too some people are lucky some arnt ,,and they wudnt evenhelp if he wasnt with me ,its stated when he has to prudce this document ,AND ALL TO OTHERS HAVE EGYPTIAN HUSBAND U MUST RING THE HOME OFFICE AT LEAST 8WEEKS BEFORE HIS VISA RUNS OUT OR THEY WILL THINK HES ALEGAL ALIAN LIVING HERE ,JUST GOT A LETTER THIS WEEK ,a ilegal alien :eek:i always thought of him as wierd .lol lol .not dissing you charm some have it and some dont ..and guess what IM KNAKERED THESE DAYS ..
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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this is a man wnating to find a western muslim bride this is what he thinks of egyptian women for brides /quote ,
i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:33: Many considerations i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:34: Most importantly, I do not believe I can almost one day may get married here i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:34: I want that the latest change in my life i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:37: Treat very bad i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:37: Here women extremely difficult i'm fussy sent 27/08/2006 14:37: There not have feelings is this a prblem for egyptian women all men looking to marry forigners soon the country will be over run by women not a bad thought hey ...
minni says: omg? Here women are not telling the truth Found before marriage completely different person than after marriage ------------------------------------------------ hes killing me with laughter .....
neenee Member # 11717
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quote:Originally posted by cHiMpSs:
quote:Originally posted by neenee: I brought my first husband over from pakistain in 6months and every one knows how hard it is to bring some one from there. Did not even have a full time job. But like they say its not what you know but who you know. You can get all sorts of fake doucuments these days. let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
id be carefdul what you say in here youdont who your talking with ..if your doing this kind of stuff dont advertise it ok ,this forum is watched and observed and if dont bother you then you wudnt mind if ur husband is sent back and you go to jail it obviously doesnt bother you ,and actually im joked one is enough for me and i dont need forged documents it people like you that pissed the system up ..
firstly its not people like me who has pissed the system off, its the guys that use girls for there passport that's pissed them off. All i did was bring the guy that i truly loved over here quicker, i don't see any thing bad Your just pissed off that people like you had to work hard to get your husband here and for me it was so easy.
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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oh i say darling yu need to see your good its ahas wide has your hole please please dont get cocky with me i did mine at least up and above boared and how long did yah first marriage last i suppose hes happily living here now in good ole england ,and oh by the way what are u ''jaat or mirza or sindh or where are u from in pakistan originaly ..just a thought ,family agrre for u to go and fall in love with egyptian im indian and arabdecent cousins r pakistani and it s having its moments beleive me .please dont offend me that ive worked hard to get him its obvously u haveur ways and means and lovely jubbly money ,...just dont broad cast ur slef that you have ways and means few here work for the british immigration here thats how they get there informaytion of people like you ip is given to them..
cHiMpSs Member # 11270
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your a faker and fake documents ..no more not interested .
Ayisha Member # 4713
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neenee, you say in your first post 'he does not want to come to England' so why are you bringing him here?? Have you considered moving there to Egypt? Also, its a LOT easier to get a husband from Pakistan as it is from Egypt!
Paint Me As I Am Member # 7796
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: let me know when your thinking of bringing number 2 over and i might be able to help
Do u know where Mr. Ladden is at ? I have a few words to say to Him..
shannierae Member # 3657
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quote:Originally posted by neenee: im a muslim girl living in london and have just recently visited egypt.While i was in egypt i met a guy and fell in love. Since coming back to england we have keept in touch and are planing on getting married. Do you think he really loves me or is he only after my british passport? He says he does not want to move to england, but is this not what they all say in the begining? plz help
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