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Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted I have a question... If one of your managers tell you that they are in love with you, does it mean you are doing a good job or is it literally what they said? Got held back in a meeting this morning and was shot that line. I dont know how to take it.
Event Horizon Member # 6244	posted So...there was no context to this statement? S/he didn't say anything else? I wouldn't take it literally. S/he probably thinks you said something good in the meeting.
MissFit Member # 15579	posted lol
Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted It went like this. 'Ok everyone im done u can leave.' i get up to leave and he goes, 'Wait, Tami, stay with me a second, everyone else you can go.' I sat down and said, 'What did I do now?!' He told me about how he didn't like how I yelled at him yesterday and that I embarrased him (lol) and then he said, 'you do a really good job here and even when you were on the position all by yourself. i have to admit it Tami, and don't say anything but Im in love with you...i really mean it. I like you, you like me and were friends right? So going forward, dont yell at me like that anymore, it really hurt. Just tell me what I can do to approach you better.' i told him its not his fault, its mine..I have to keep control of my own tough ass, apologized and quickly walked out the room with a nervous grin in my face. (when im nervous i laugh, i dont know why)
????? Member # 12336	posted Then he got you where he wants you: in confusement and admitting that you were wrong instead of him. You will work even harder, because of what he said, and that's his goal. Good luck!
elizabethN Member # 14096	posted have you heard of sexual harassment?
Tigerlily Member # 3567	posted You are yelling at your boss???
Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted I don't really 'yell' at him, but I get smart ass. Like last week I told him that his eyebrows make him look like a girl. (he waxes) It's his fault. He is alway rubbing my back and tries to tickle me under my arms and so I guess he deserves it. But he does the most stupidest things and is so lazy omg! That kind of people get under my skin unlike no other.
Tigerlily Member # 3567	posted Oh well... it looks like you are teasing each other. Isn't that the rockstar you are talking about??
Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted No this is another boss... I cant help myself, yes I do flirt back...what can I say.
Shanta Qadeema Member # 9889	posted quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: I don't really 'yell' at him, but I get smart ass. Like last week I told him that his eyebrows make him look like a girl. (he waxes) It's his fault. He is alway rubbing my back and tries to tickle me under my arms and so I guess he deserves it. But he does the most stupidest things and is so lazy omg! That kind of people get under my skin unlike no other. Urm - if an Egyptian man did this to someone here, the whole forum would be screaming 'sexual harassment'. Do you mind his advances? I would interpret it to mean he fancies you. So really its a case of (a) is it unwanted (in which case its SH) or (b) do you not mind much because of the nature of your place of work, its accepted 'banter'? (in which case it may or may not be SH). Or (3) do you not mind because you fancy him too (in which case its not SH).
Tigerlily Member # 3567	posted Shanta, she already answered that previously. She admitted she does flirt back.
Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted quote: Originally posted by Shanta Qadeema: quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: I don't really 'yell' at him, but I get smart ass. Like last week I told him that his eyebrows make him look like a girl. (he waxes) It's his fault. He is alway rubbing my back and tries to tickle me under my arms and so I guess he deserves it. But he does the most stupidest things and is so lazy omg! That kind of people get under my skin unlike no other. Urm - if an Egyptian man did this to someone here, the whole forum would be screaming 'sexual harassment'. Do you mind his advances? I would interpret it to mean he fancies you. So really its a case of (a) is it unwanted (in which case its SH) or (b) do you not mind much because of the nature of your place of work, its accepted 'banter'? (in which case it may or may not be SH). Or (3) do you not mind because you fancy him too (in which case its not SH). LOL if it was an egyptian man, I would have had him right then and there on the conference room table. I just aint into american men, so this dude aint gettin any. There are Egyptians that work in my building but they are on the other side.
Tigerlily Member # 3567	posted quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: LOL if it was an egyptian man, I would have had him right then and there on the conference room table. This is too much for me to read on a peaceful Friday afternoon!! quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: There are Egyptians that work in my building but they are on the other side. I guess it's their luck??
Momma Dukes Member # 14252	posted looooool..nah i see them peeking at me in the courtyard at lunch.
elizabethN Member # 14096	posted I know you are just so beautiful, hot and respectful no man can help themself. What a ego you have! All you do is talk about how hot you are. You really are very insecure to have to boost yourself up all the time. Do you judge your hotness by how many men you have fucked? Looks like it. Get over yourself PLEASE!!!!!!!
sherribaby Member # 15378	posted quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: It went like this. 'Ok everyone im done u can leave.' i get up to leave and he goes, 'Wait, Tami, stay with me a second, everyone else you can go.' I sat down and said, 'What did I do now?!' He told me about how he didn't like how I yelled at him yesterday and that I embarrased him (lol) and then he said, 'you do a really good job here and even when you were on the position all by yourself. i have to admit it Tami, and don't say anything but Im in love with you...i really mean it. I like you, you like me and were friends right? So going forward, dont yell at me like that anymore, it really hurt. Just tell me what I can do to approach you better.' i told him its not his fault, its mine..I have to keep control of my own tough ass, apologized and quickly walked out the room with a nervous grin in my face. (when im nervous i laugh, i dont know why) Is this manager married? Snap have one of these at my work too, theres usually one everywhere if you look carefully.
hitman Member # 13360	posted quote: Originally posted by Momma Dukes: I have a question... If one of your managers tell you that they are in love with you, does it mean you are doing a good job or is it literally what they said? Got held back in a meeting this morning and was shot that line. I dont know how to take it. if u want an egyptian man experience about what u asked !!! ..that means he wanna have u in bed with him someday ........I am not kidding .....take care