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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Exiiled: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by stayingput: [qb] Have you asked him in a way that requires a yes or no answer? If not, you should. If his answer is no, tell him you want him to swear to God, three times, in Arabic ("walahee, walahee, walahee"). I'm not saying that's a sure fire answer, but many times that will get a Muslim Egyptian to tell the truth (something about if you swear it three times, God hears you). Secrecy? Not cool, but not totally unusual and not necessary a clue he's married. Sending a lot of money home? Eh, maybe. It could be because he's supporting a wife (and, if that's the case, likely children), however he really could be helping take care of sick parents. Lack of physical contact? Hmmmmm. Do you suppose he's worried that you might get pregnant? You said he wants to hold off on babies until after he's got his papers fixed, so that may be the reason for that. Storing phone numbers in his phone as words? I DO THAT. I don't know the name of the business that keeps our lawn, but I can easily retrieve it by looking up "LAWN CARE" in my directory. I'm not making excuses for him. The biggest concern here is the secrecy about your marriage. It doesn't sound like you've spent a lot of time in Egypt to know the big deal surrounding marriages, including proposals, engagements, weddings, and wedding parties. THAT is what's most disturbing. [/qb][/QUOTE]Good post. Certainly a different perspective than the gung-ho, flog the bastard, guilty before trial postings that prevail in this thread. Some say follow your gut feeling. Sure, intuition is a great gift, but can also mislead. A marriage issue as hugely important as this requires [b]tangible proof[/b]. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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