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Salam Ahmed, Exactly problem is when somebody doesnt understand second person, but the same time -- "snake" you should explain it if the person dont understand you , not just leave and go anywhere... Even it take`s time , just explain -- it make people to understand eachother more better in future... Inshallah According to your polish -- why not ?? You know polish words , but I dont know if anyone here want to hear them.... Salam
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just no comments because i dont like to repeat all again here what i said before... you are still on the wrong track... leave him in peace, dont talk to him by anyway... let your heart recover, do it for yourself - so you see i said the comment again. but its the last one. i promise to close my mouth now. Salam
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Hmmm ...I `m thinking - its forum , so we can talk what we have in our minds -- if its not this way -- for what is this website????
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so you dont see that you are following him all the time? Im just worrying about you because it would be better for you even to stop keeping any discussion with him on such forums, especially that what he wrote her was a month ago. Please be honest and good to yourself, start to love yourself, not hurt more. Salam
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So sad to hear how foriegn women are degraded in such a way.. I have had the good fortune to live in Egypt albeit for a short time, and experience many different facets of life there. The men were polite friendly and ever so helpful. As a foriegn woman I did not come to egypt in search of a saviour and to be a "queen". It is my love for the culture, way of life and immense history that has drawn me to mystical Egypt. I will make Egypt my home soon as this is where my heart lies. Not for any man or citizenship or job. I am an educated professional person capable of supporting my own needs, even if I don't find work in egypt. For me life is an adventure. we have no right to judge people, be they rich or poor, foriegn or local. That is God's domain. Judge not the women who are the mothers of nations, but be open to their love and friendships, for it is they who comfort you throughout eternity. Beautiful hearts see the good in all. They do not pick and choose according to your bank balance. Stop judging foriegn women so harshly, not all have ulterior motives for wanting to live in egypt.
Salaam my friends.
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Well said Nourhan! Egypt is nice to visit but for me not to live. Is quite sad in the coastal resorts seeing the yound stud guys with old women..but hey ho,if they are happy leave them to it as let's face it none of us younger chicks were in the slight interested in these guys. Is just annoying that the men for most part acted like flies and were very difficult to swat! lol
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Nourhan - nice to hear such common sense - unfortunately some people are judgemental.
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The young studs and old women,,,guess you're right, let them be happy,,,it may be the only action either will get...it is sad though. It is hard to swat them off I know,, flattering ,,, but tiresome,,,LOL
As for those judgemental types,, i wonder what drives them to their conclusions,,, maybe a bad experience with one foriegn woman just puts us all in the same box.
I am waiting for Ael_H , to explain this to me. I am sure it will be a most enjoyable battle of words.
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There are worse things in the world that younger men getting together with older women. If its between consenting adults - leave them to it. Its none of my business. What I do object to is sex tourism that involves children, or young girls being sold into slavery. This is a much more serious issue.
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I have seen this underage sex tourism when I visited thailand. So openly marketed . It was the saddest most horrifying thing i saw. What is worse is that the authorities turn a blind eye to it. A breeding ground for perverts and phaedophiles. Children as young as 6 were on offer .
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quote:Originally posted by DawnBev: There are worse things in the world that younger men getting together with older women. If its between consenting adults - leave them to it. Its none of my business. What I do object to is sex tourism that involves children, or young girls being sold into slavery. This is a much more serious issue.
you are right DawnBev, lets leave them in peace... maybe they are happy together... maybe some of them are falling trully in love, even if the difference in age between them is like 15 years... of course such ppl can be happy together, why not?... we never know what are their intensions, so its not our task to judge them at all, its only Allah who knows better.
I agree that its totally their problem and not a business of anybody else. The problem is with sex tourism that involves children, as you said, not adult ppl.
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ugh - those poor kids. What sort of life are they going to have? Its so wrong.
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hey, its not like their is one woman throwing stones at one egyptian man...everything written here must be true if like, well, almost EVERY SINGLE WOMAN IS COMPLAINING! plus, it's about time foreign women come to the states to make a life. depending on a man to provide for you gets you nowhere but cast aside with 10 kids and no $$$ because we also all know how you egyptian men love to run around with young girls.
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i really think egyptian men are th ebest type of men who could make a lady feel secure, the problem is that they love european beauty in a lady something rare to find here.
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prove how egyptian men are the best type,,,i am interested to know how and why!!!LOL
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well let me put my 2 cents into this, First I am a forgien woman coming to Egypt, I do have a job and a life in America, I am in no way poor, nor am I coming to Egypt to make myself a Queen as you put it. I have everything I need here except my Fiancee, The fact that I can not have a happy relationship here in America is a problem, because some men here have no clue on how to treat a lady. My man treats me like a lady and loves me very much. He is the best, and the fact that he and I are from 2 different worlds well all I have to say is love conquers all. So those you have been hurt by egyptian men that is something they have to deal with. Not all american women are out looking for the "perfect" husband or a man that will take care of her and give her everything she needs. My reason is love not money, I make more then he does and that doesnt affect anything. Of course I want a job when I move to Egypt, I am used to being independent. But out of respect for my fiancee I will not work for a while. Anyways I could go on all day about this but I wont I just wanted to put my 2 cents in
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Al Salam alikom wa ra7mat allah wa barakato i think foreign women who come here may be wa23een but not all of them others may come coz they like egypt and they r right its anice country .also its not sth weird to find an egyption man who wanna get married to a foreign woman ,egyptians men arent angels they are also wa23een and because they didnt find an appropriate woman from their country that accepted them they search 4 a foreign women coz foreign women mish 3arfin el fiha fa byidi7k 3alihom by the name of love, beside that the expenses of marriage is very high and any egyptian girl will ask 4 a certain dowry and the shabka and such things but forigners i think their maximum is to ask about an engagement ring and a place to live in.
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quote:Originally posted by SAMIRA85: Al Salam alikom wa ra7mat allah wa barakato i think foreign women who come here may be wa23een but not all of them others may come coz they like egypt and they r right its anice country .also its not sth weird to find an egyption man who wanna get married to a foreign woman ,egyptians men arent angels they are also wa23een and because they didnt find an appropriate woman from their country that accepted them they search 4 a foreign women coz foreign women mish 3arfin el fiha fa byidi7k 3alihom by the name of love, beside that the expenses of marriage is very high and any egyptian girl will ask 4 a certain dowry and the shabka and such things but forigners i think their maximum is to ask about an engagement ring and a place to live in.
What does "wa23een" mean?
And what does "coz foreign women mish 3arfin el fiha fa byidi7k 3alihom by the name of love" mean?
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we still wana hear more views about egyptian men personality and their sexual demands, why do they prefer foreign blondy ladies more than egyptian gurls????
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WTF why blonde? I'm not a blonde and married an egyptian, I wasn't desperate. I think most of us who are or have been marrie to egyptians know very well about their sexual demands and their B.F
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