quote:Originally posted by GlobalOne: What is the point in asking a male that if they do not find any enjoyment (an American born would say JOY) in holding men's hands. I did not ask anyone who is raised in a culture where this is viewed as unacceptable behavior to embrace it whole heartily, and without question but as I said someone can ask questions to learn about something or they can ask questions to mock others which I will not stand for. There is a difference between being tolerant and being a door mate. Do not you think?
That's doormat.
Didn't you just scold her for bad spelling?
Even if she was 'mocking you', which I highly doubt, I see no reason for the hostility.
quote:Originally posted by GlobalOne: What is the point in asking a male that if they do not find any enjoyment (an American born would say JOY) in holding men's hands. I did not ask anyone who is raised in a culture where this is viewed as unacceptable behavior to embrace it whole heartily, and without question but as I said someone can ask questions to learn about something or they can ask questions to mock others which I will not stand for. There is a difference between being tolerant and being a door mate. Do not you think?
That's doormat.
Didn't you just scold her for bad spelling?
Even if she was 'mocking you', which I highly doubt, I see no reason for the hostility.
Doormat vs door mate ..LOL Well! I do not claim that this is my native language so I'm entitled to do some mistakes and have some hurdles here and there when I try to communicate in a language I only have been speaking for a period of time.
any how * I * was the one insulted maybe if the question was directed at you you would have felt differently.
I'm a jerk by nature that is trying so hard to be a nice person. A lot of times I wish I can take what I said back but it is just not possible. I still think that was a direct insult to me since she directed the question to me but I do not want to be the sensitive jerk that I'm So I will tell her
of_Gold! forget I ever said that! I'm sorry. Please do not take it personal. You might be the nicest person in real life.But you meant to insult me. and I was fast to draw conclusions.
I sound like Corv. Goush! this board is fading on me. Thank VB for setting things straight.
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