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unsure
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I married by ORFI because Americans and Egyptians could not marry at the time but we agreed to marry legally once we could. Family and friends came to the wedding party but only the immediate family knew it was ORFI. Since we can marry legally, I don't want to marry him. I don't want to marry him at all. He told me to "shut up" today, and I knew then he wasn't for me.
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then dont marry him, you dont have to if you dont want to.

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Just leave.
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you dont need us to tell u to leave him!!
tell him the truth girl!!!
i dont wanna be with u as a wife and if yr not happy just leave no strings attached!!!
only u can know what u wanna do with or without our opinions!!!

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your ass is so tight when you fart only a dog can hear it.when you queef only a cat can hear that one.

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Alchemist nobody lied. I was asking for my friend about something and in the meantime I got involved with an Egyptian man I do not know who "pissed in your cornflakes" but don't f**k with me.
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quote:
Originally posted by unsure:
I married by ORFI because Americans and Egyptians could not marry at the time but we agreed to marry legally once we could. Family and friends came to the wedding party but only the immediate family knew it was ORFI. Since we can marry legally, I don't want to marry him. I don't want to marry him at all. He told me to "shut up" today, and I knew then he wasn't for me.

Well hurry up pay off his mother. Seriously she has to be holding onto the Orfi papers.

Get out now before he tries to suck you in again.

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You just need to be honest and say it's over before it gets too deep
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Listen to your instincts....get out...if thats what you feel you need to do. Do not hesitate if your gut tells you this is wrong.
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quote:
Originally posted by unsure:
Alchemist nobody lied. I was asking for my friend about something and in the meantime I got involved with an Egyptian man I do not know who "pissed in your cornflakes" but don't f**k with me.

Sorry I edited because I thought you might say this and to be honest it really doesn't matter if you lied or not. You're a grown woman and you know what your gut feeling is and what you have to do to get out. [Smile]
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Big girl underpants, etc, etc, (for Rumi) [Big Grin]
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quote:
Originally posted by unsure:
Alchemist nobody lied. I was asking for my friend about something and in the meantime I got involved with an Egyptian man I do not know who "pissed in your cornflakes" but don't f**k with me.

What got your knickers in a knot..Alchemist just gave you some good solid advice.

So I'll rephrase it.."Just put one foot in front of the other..."

BTW: Who eats cornflakes and piss?..whew!

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Unsure, have a heart to heart talk with him and tell him you want out. Best of luck to the future! [Smile]
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Sands - I think Alchemist said something else and thn edited the post.

Unsure - Its not always an easy thing to do, but you do seem sure that you dont want to marry him and I would guess that other things have happened as well as the 'shut up'. As others have said, the longer you leave it the harder it will be to leave, you may even end up making excuses for him or believing its not so bad. Trust you instincts, either he changes what he's doing to make you feel this way or explain to him that 'how things are' is not what you want [Smile]

good luck

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quote:
Originally posted by unsure:
I do not know who "pissed in your cornflakes" but don't f**k with me.

I don't comment on this topic but I do want to remember this (new) idiom. [Big Grin]
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quote:
Originally posted by Expecto Patronum (Alchemist):
Big girl underpants, etc, etc, (for Rumi) [Big Grin]

[Big Grin] [Big Grin] Thanks, funny how no one likes to hear it on here, you should know that by now,lol. It will always be my favorite expression along with drama llamas and scum sucking bottom dwellers [Big Grin]

BTW, I didn't know you liked cornflakes, I thought you liked cake!! [Razz] [Big Grin]

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I don't understand what the problem is you have two choices :-

1. Marry him knowing you made the biggest mistake of your life and have to go through the pain and expense of divorce in the future

2. Don't marry him - be honest and say i do not want to marry you and avoid any future heartache

Surely if you are having second thoughts that would tell you that the marriage should not go ahead? [Eek!]

Good luck with whatever decision you make [Smile]

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