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I think TL is liability to herself!! she is a very unstable person.Thanks everyone for your support!!
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: WHATEVER WHORE!!
quote:Originally posted by marydot: I will not post here any longer on this thread or on this forum because
Anyone who congratulates you here on your fourth, fifth or whatever marriage is the same wacked as you are!!!!
Woaaa WTF? So is she a whore in your opinion because shes talking of marriage or because she has a new man? If it was her 4th or 5th boyfriend that would be ok I suppose? I am pretty sure you yourself have had more boyfriends than that and we all know sono tells the world each sexual encounter she has. I am on hubby number 3 but I have also had boyfriends in the past, does that make me a super whore or was I only a whore when I married them?
As far as im aware Marydot is Muslim, surprisingly enough not all muslims stay married to the same partner forever as neither do non muslims. Many muslims barely get to know someone before they marry and they marry so they CAN get to know each other, unlike just having a boyfriend. calling her a whore for that is way out of order and considering just about all of us have had more than a couple of boyfriends or husbands you are then calling all of us here which I take offense at!
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I am obviously a whore because I was with my husband before marriage but Tiger you lived with your Egyptian boyfriend in Cairo does that make you snow white Posts: 4476 | From: Scotland | Registered: Mar 2006
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: I am obviously a whore because I was with my husband before marriage but Tiger you lived with your Egyptian boyfriend in Cairo does that make you snow white
Waiting on a reply Tiger!
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Once married and that happily for 10.5 years with four children. How unstable is that????
Seriously learn to love yourself before you get into any new relationship, marydot.
It's easy to run to the next church - in your case the next mosque - to get married with a guy you met online and hardly even know.
But what I am talking about: You wouldn't be the first from this forum to do that.
Don't disrespect the meaning of marriage.
marriage # 1 British husband 1 year 3 months! marriage # 2 British husband 22 years Marriage # 3 Egyptian Husband 5 years 1 month 18 days and counting. is that disrespecting the meaning of marriage? Posts: 15090 | From: http://www.egyptalk.com/forum/ | Registered: Jul 2004
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Once married and that happily for 10.5 years with four children. How unstable is that????
Seriously learn to love yourself before you get into any new relationship, marydot.
It's easy to run to the next church - in your case the next mosque - to get married with a guy you met online and hardly even know.
But what I am talking about: You wouldn't be the first from this forum to do that.
Don't disrespect the meaning of marriage.
Tigerlily Are you always an idiot, or just when I'm around? Posts: 1048 | From: If you are given a blessing you may be envied | Registered: Oct 2008
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: I am obviously a whore because I was with my husband before marriage but Tiger you lived with your Egyptian boyfriend in Cairo does that make you snow white
So you were his girlfriend before being his wife? Posts: 3833 | From: here,there,everywhere | Registered: Nov 2007
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And if you hold marriage in such high regard (which I respect, btw., I'm not being sarcastic here!) -- then wouldn't you agree that there are many people on here who *disrespect* its meaning?
Why single out and attack this particular poster then? There seems to be something about her that triggers your resentment and anger, and I really don't understand why. Posts: 2803 | Registered: Feb 2007
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No marriage, no kids.... I am CLEARLY a lesbian!!!
Just glad I have met many folk from here who know the real me...
Ayisha... va va voooom, how you doin you are my kinda lass.... puuuuuuuuurrr ...
I turned down more offers of marriaqe than I care to remember.... I had one crossing the road earler not my cuppa tea.
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quote:Originally posted by Cheekyferret: No marriage, no kids.... I am CLEARLY a lesbian!!!
Just glad I have met many folk from here who know the real me...
Ayisha... va va voooom, how you doin you are my kinda lass.... puuuuuuuuurrr ...
I turned down more offers of marriaqe than I care to remember.... I had one crossing the road earler not my cuppa tea.
aaa damn i was gonna ask u to marry me. its legal in my state now hahahahahaha jokin hun.
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quote:Originally posted by Cheekyferret: Tina.... I like blondes
God, it is 5am and my brain is mush... I HAVE to go bed.
hey now what are u implying? i bleach my hair.. i aint all blonde...
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Ayisha... va va voooom, how you doin you are my kinda lass.... puuuuuuuuurrr ...
*bats eyelashes at ferret*
as you know i am brunette but am willing to grow out the 'white blonde' for you Posts: 15090 | From: http://www.egyptalk.com/forum/ | Registered: Jul 2004
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Ayisha... va va voooom, how you doin you are my kinda lass.... puuuuuuuuurrr ...
*bats eyelashes at ferret*
as you know i am brunette but am willing to grow out the 'white blonde' for you
hey back off unless u want a 3 some.. dzosser would like to see us 3 gettin it on wouldnt ya..????hahahaha
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tina you got no chance, at least I am in the same country
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And if you hold marriage in such high regard (which I respect, btw., I'm not being sarcastic here!) -- then wouldn't you agree that there are many people on here who *disrespect* its meaning?
Why single out and attack this particular poster then? There seems to be something about her that triggers your resentment and anger, and I really don't understand why.
Please reread my responses in this topic. I am not attacking someone for getting married a second time around.
Marydot is someone who seems to take it too lightly with the whole concept of marriage. But I already pointed it all well out above.
Today it's this guy she intends to marry, tomorrow it will be another guy she met online. Really the UK has more than enough eligible Muslim bachelors and she could find someone through the mosque she's attending because she's oh so pious. Oh right I forgot ... she seems to switch mosques like she switches men.
WOW she surely makes other converts who try really hard to do right look very bad. Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Tigerlilly, that was uncalled for. It is evident u have an issue with marydot. I believe marydot, myself, and the forum members would like to know what it is.
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Marydot is an adult and its up to her what she does with her life.
so basically, who cares how many men she's married or been engaged to or anything else.
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I do believe Tigerlily is a stalker and a racist and she is jealous of the woman on ES who marry Egyptians.She has this desire to bash many people on ES this what she does every day.
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I will reiterate for the hard of thinking...
Why should ANYONE care what others choose to do with THEIR lives. Who died and made TL bloody judge and jury...
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no one.... bless her, shes just got far too much time on her hands during the day. TL, maybe you should get yourself a hobby and stop preaching.
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Please reread my responses in this topic. I am not attacking someone for getting married a second time around.
Marydot is someone who seems to take it too lightly with the whole concept of marriage. But I already pointed it all well out above.
Yes, Tiger, I read that. And if you feel she is taking the concept of marriage too lightly, you are entitled to your opinion of course. But my point was that it is absolutely not okay to insult her the way you do.
As has been pointed out, many people on here have probably had a number of boyfriends / girlfriends / sexual partners. And I am sure some of the more conservative members are of the opinion that those people take the concept of marriage and sex way too lightly. So do you think that should give them the right to insult everyone who mentions a boyfriend / girlfriend, or affair?
We can't always apply our own moral standards on others. You think marydot has low moral standards. Others on here probably think you have low moral standards for living with your Egyptian boyfriend. How would you feel if those people started calling you a whore and giving you advice on how to live your life?
quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: Today it's this guy she intends to marry, tomorrow it will be another guy she met online. Really the UK has more than enough eligible Muslim bachelors and she could find someone through the mosque she's attending because she's oh so pious.
But so WHAT? Why does that bother you so much?
As I said before, MysticHeart, for example, has been doing the same thing, yet you didn't insult her and call her names. (I'm not taking a dig at MH here, btw., just using her as an example.)
quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: WOW she surely makes other converts who try really hard to do right look very bad.
Since when do you worry so much about Muslim converts and how they look in the eyes of others? There are several converts on here and I haven't seen them taking offense at marydot's posts, so why do you?
Please chill! If you feel the need to voice your disagreement with another member's choices, then go ahead and do so, but please leave the insults out of it.
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I was brought up to respect others. So Tiger what are you teaching your children? That if their friends do not fit in to the correct 'box' they deserve to be personally insulted and humiliated Posts: 4476 | From: Scotland | Registered: Mar 2006
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Hitler aka TL who the hell do you think you are who the hell made you judge and jury sitting on your little high horse and lecturing people on how you think life and morals should be, grow up and get a life you a nasty piece of work. Ordinarily people live and learn. You just live.
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So I met a Egyptian guy over the internet and he comes to the uk!! At least he didn't want a visa or money he has this already here, so no worry s. He has been married a few times also no big deal.Thats his history not mine.Also I know he is not the mr innocent angel he makes out to be either lol,i am happy to have him as a friend and keep good contact with him [/QB][/QUOTE]
It disturbs me that you dont seem to give a hoot how this Egyptian guy you met on the internet who has been married twice, who is now in the Uk and does not need money or visa has probably conned a woman to get into the Uk. being a victim of this myself I feel sad that you have no concience MD, and by your own admission he is not an angel..Mmmm? sounds familiar to me.. Just watch your step. Guys like that do not give up conning older women for whatever they can get
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ps.. Im not taking sides here, I dont agree with being bitchy or attacking anyone on here, however, its just a friendly warning to be careful and to have integrity.. I just find it difficult to understand your couldnt care less attitude about what hes done before and that you find it funny and want to embrace this guy as your "friend"
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Why should I have a conscience? Whatever my friend has done before is no business of mine,like its no business of his what I have done before. My friend can do whatever he likes this is his choices in life same as me.AS i have stated we are friends.But I dont need to write anymore on a forum because I dont give a damm what people think or say.
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I dont believe in the statements "what comes around goes around".I dont live my life on this way of thinking.so I will pass by this thread.
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quote:Originally posted by marydot: Why should I have a conscience? Whatever my friend has done before is no business of mine,like its no business of his what I have done before. My friend can do whatever he likes this is his choices in life same as me.AS i have stated we are friends.But I dont need to write anymore on a forum because I dont give a damm what people think or say.
sweet heart if u did not give a damn u would not respond.u do care what p[eople think cas u asked for advice posting it online. i always say i do not care what people think. and i do not but i do however like to read other peoples views good or bad. take it in stride. not everyone sees yr life like this.i do not see anything wrong with u not caring about his past. like me now if walid said i lied all theses yrs and i am divorced i could and would forgive him cas he is a kind person. if u wanna marry that friend do what u want if u do not want opinions do not post yr info. u will get good and bad opinions. no matter what u post?capeche? right or wrong?
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I think that somebodies past can give an indication of the personality. As it is important to know the history in order to understand how the world is today, in fact the same counts for people. If you truly want to understand your partner, knowing his past can be important to make that possible. That doesn't mean that he has to give all the details, because also that can work out unhealthy. Everything what happens in a life, is related to time and circumstances. So the event isn't the important thing, but the circumstances and the time are as important as the event is. The statement 'waht comes around goes around'isn't always the truth, at least not at that moment. But in time it will. When a bad person benefits his/her behaviour on short term, the real character will come clear on long term, so then it comes around a bit later...
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quote:Originally posted by marydot: Why should I have a conscience? Whatever my friend has done before is no business of mine,like its no business of his what I have done before. My friend can do whatever he likes this is his choices in life same as me.AS i have stated we are friends.But I dont need to write anymore on a forum because I dont give a damm what people think or say.
sweet heart if u did not give a damn u would not respond.u do care what p[eople think cas u asked for advice posting it online. i always say i do not care what people think. and i do not but i do however like to read other peoples views good or bad. take it in stride. not everyone sees yr life like this.i do not see anything wrong with u not caring about his past. like me now if walid said i lied all theses yrs and i am divorced i could and would forgive him cas he is a kind person. if u wanna marry that friend do what u want if u do not want opinions do not post yr info. u will get good and bad opinions. no matter what u post?capeche? right or wrong?
I agree Tina most threads on ES turns nasty in one form or another,whatever a poster has to say whether good or bad,this is the thing with ES personal or not it does not matter because the blasting will begin
I dont have a problem because when I turn off my computer i can sleep at night I did not come here looking for advice but its interesting to see what other posters have to say.which is a good thing...oh how the joys of net life Posts: 1048 | From: If you are given a blessing you may be envied | Registered: Oct 2008
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I am just wondering who will fire the next rounds of shot at me roflmao
Thats your lot ladies, no more personal shots from me, I will pull up a seat and enjoy the ride on ES for a while Posts: 1048 | From: If you are given a blessing you may be envied | Registered: Oct 2008
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quote:Originally posted by marydot: I am just wondering who will fire the next rounds of shot at me roflmao
Thats your lot ladies, no more personal shots from me, I will pull up a seat and enjoy the ride on ES for a while
damn i am out of bullets.. hahahahahah
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quote:Originally posted by *Dalia*: If you feel the need to voice your disagreement with another member's choices, then go ahead and do so, but please leave the insults out of it.
Point taken, Dalia. I respect you and your posts.
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quote:Originally posted by *****: Hitler aka TL who the hell do you think you are who the hell made you judge and jury sitting on your little high horse and lecturing people on how you think life and morals should be, grow up and get a life you a nasty piece of work. Ordinarily people live and learn. You just live.
Lol "Hitler"! For an old lady you got quite a temper!!! Did yo try councelling??
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: I was brought up to respect others. So Tiger what are you teaching your children? That if their friends do not fit in to the correct 'box' they deserve to be personally insulted and humiliated
Since you have to take another dig at me - and mentioning my children in this topic - let me make this clear to you: I am pretty certain that I teach my children well all the needed values they need later on in life to succeed.
And for sure none of my boys is gonna end up with a woman past her expiration date!!
Well what else is to say to this topic besides birds of a feather flock together....
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I admire MD for walking away and not marrying him... too many women go through with the farce of a marriage to save face. (globally)... It takes a better person to admit they are wrong.
What goes around comes around can also work in the positive sense. MD, you for e.g could now believe that becasue you were not 100% happy and chose to end the relationship that another could come your way.
Children adopt the traits of those they are greatly influenced by. Traits can not be taught, only aped.
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Unlike you do to me Tiger I am not taking a dig at you. Simply asking you a straightforward question? So I'm past my expiry date am I now that is funny . Anyone would think you were from a different generation to me. Guess your expiry date won't be that far away also . I think it will be your boys choice who they fall in love with not yours By the way still waiting a reply to you living with your boyfriend in Cairo!
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Its funny how you lot go on about how nasty the forum is, and when TL comes on and says what MANY people are probably thinking, you all fire insults at her and gang up?
Pot calling kettle black isn't it?
Maybe TL was wrong to call Marydot a whore, but perhaps she got so fed up reading the pious tale of a muslimah that it p'd her off. Yes I have seen the video Marydot posted of Allah...and then pictures of herself, and yes I too have heard tales of men here and there...I chose not to comment cos Its not my business and It seemed a bit silly to me.
But if someone wants to live their life that way, as Marydot does, thats up to her, equally its up to TL to get fed up and say what she thinks.
Its a forum, as you all keep saying, its not a happy little community (whatever you may think), there are people outside of the little 'clique' that read and laugh, cry, call names so maybe EVERYONE should stop taking everything so seriously and acting like TL just disgraced Marydot's honour!!
Its the INTERNET!!!!!!
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quote:Originally posted by young at heart: Anyone would think you were from a different generation to me.
Because I am not a craddle robber???
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: I think it will be your boys choice who they fall in love with not yours
Fall in love (blah blah..... ) oh that's how you call it. Well yeah the young man you snatched yourself didn't have much choice but then again coming from a developing country I guess it was all worth it. He went the ladder up one step but he's not there yet.
quote:Originally posted by young at heart: By the way still waiting a reply to you living with your boyfriend in Cairo!
I wasn't aware that I was obligated to answer you ,mudarissa. According to sonomod I never lived in Egypt and I still live a fantasy life these days. Do I, do I not?? Count your grey hair to find the answer for yourself.
Btw, what's gonna happen when he decides to leave you in a few years although he signed up for nappy duty? You gonna come on here and cry??
Please do so to give some people a reality check.
What do you think his family, the village where he's coming from is thinking of you?? You married into another culture and you don't have a bloody clue.
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