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vader thankyou for your comment, my hero!
sash, maybe cold fish was the wrong adjective, perhaps i should have said reserved?
i don't believe it was "me", they were all perfect gentlemen in fact, just not what i was expecting when i went away.
of course i got the usual catcalls and whistles, but they were mostly from the younger generation . i am just surprised is all.

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Manx are you really complaining that you met proper Egyptian gentlemen that treated you with total respect

If you were in Sharm you can find plenty of the other type

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vader thankyou for your comment, my hero!
sash, maybe cold fish was the wrong adjective, perhaps i should have said reserved?
i don't believe it was "me", they were all perfect gentlemen in fact, just not what i was expecting when i went away.
of course i got the usual catcalls and whistles, but they were mostly from the younger generation . i am just surprised is all.

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Manx are you really complaining that you met proper Egyptian gentlemen that treated you with total respect

If you were in Sharm you can find plenty of the other type

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If its any consolation older Egyptian men don't sulk very much. Hardly at all infact. They do grow up eventually
Sadly I think some of you have a long way to go yet

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I've heard this. ((waiting for him to age more..))

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Please woman we don't brag about that, come back when you have some hard wood and tile flooring then maybe we can talk. All those times in Egypt and you didn't learn the art of the bargain?

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EXCUSE ME, but did Mystic-rentabride just sell herself for some laminate and vinyl flooring??

Please woman we don't brag about that, come back when you have some hard wood and tile flooring then maybe we can talk. All those times in Egypt and you didn't learn the art of the bargain?

I vowed I would not respond but you seem to be under the illusion/delusion/whatever that we want to hear about and/or are jealous of your life? No on both counts. If you are so happy with your new found position(wife for hire) then go live it and stop trying to tempt us with your synthetic floorings.

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I wasnt bragging in the first place, and the choice of what went in was mine, he would have happily paid for the more expensive things but i dont have a need for more expensive. i do not have the need for hardwood floors and i dont like tile. I am not so stuck up and particular that I have to have the top of the line of everything, i want simpler things, why pay so much for something when other things that are far cheaper do just as nicely.
I do not think i have come across more stuck up people as i have here, putting people down because of what work they do and suggesting that vinyl flooring and laminate is not good enough, seems nothing is good enough for you people around here, well, i wont generalize everyone here as there are several good people, but it seems alot need to learn that top of the line brand name things are not everything in this world. How in the world can people be so materialistic.

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You could have got some really cool tile where they put the electrical line underneath and had it heated during the winter. My mother did this and it's GREAT, I hardly think she's stuck up, but she would never spend money for cheaper flooring.

It just doesn't look nice and wears out easier. I think what Alchemist meant is that since he was footing the bill, why didn't you get the best thing? Or is he planning to do aluminum siding to the house next?

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EXCUSE ME, but did Mystic-rentabride just sell herself for some laminate and vinyl flooring??

Please woman we don't brag about that, come back when you have some hard wood and tile flooring then maybe we can talk. All those times in Egypt and you didn't learn the art of the bargain?

I vowed I would not respond but you seem to be under the illusion/delusion/whatever that we want to hear about and/or are jealous of your life? No on both counts. If you are so happy with your new found position(wife for hire) then go live it and stop trying to tempt us with your synthetic floorings.

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I wasnt bragging in the first place, and the choice of what went in was mine, he would have happily paid for the more expensive things but i dont have a need for more expensive. i do not have the need for hardwood floors and i dont like tile. I am not so stuck up and particular that I have to have the top of the line of everything, i want simpler things, why pay so much for something when other things that are far cheaper do just as nicely.
I do not think i have come across more stuck up people as i have here, putting people down because of what work they do and suggesting that vinyl flooring and laminate is not good enough, seems nothing is good enough for you people around here, well, i wont generalize everyone here as there are several good people, but it seems alot need to learn that top of the line brand name things are not everything in this world. How in the world can people be so materialistic.

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Mystic don't you get it yet, nobody can understand why you went into a marriage for financial reasons. Now who is it thats being materialistic?

You post about your new marriage and in the
first post are already talking about what he has done in your house while at the same time saying its hard to go from friend to lover. Of course it is you don't love him. Nobody understands how you can get into bed with a man you don't love.

So please don't accuse members of being materialistic for making lighthearted comments because they can't possibly understand your life choices.

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Instead of investing in Egypt you should have invested in your household, so you wouldn't need to marry a stranger because of the money...

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No matter how stressed I get, or how bad I think I have it.. your situation and solutions always make me feel smart, sane, and extremely self reliant.

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I know all about financial difficulties - I'm also a single parent, and my house needs lots of work: roof replacing, electrics re-wiring, new bathroom, etc...... the list never seems to get any shorter .........

however, I dont want to remarry or even live with someone, so how much do you think I'd get for a quick shag?

It would have to very quick, i.e. no foreplay
no blow job
he would have to have a paper bag over his head
he'd have to leave straight after
no burping, farting, snoring or scratching his arse

and I'd need an extra large bonus for psycho-analysis afterwards please

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I think Mystic is having an 'out of money experience'.

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There is a difference in being materialistic and thinking you have to have the best of the best and what i did. My marriage was for financial reasons yes, but it wasnt about getting the more expensive things in life, its about necessary things. I am surviving on my own but as fuel prices rise and prices of living go up, my income is also lowering as people arent spending as much out, therefore my decision was about surviving and being able to get necessary things, not tile and hardwood. It was discovered that my home had termites, they needed to be treated, i didnt have that money, the floor in 2 rooms needed to be replaced due to damage, i couldnt do that, the carpeting in living room children had destroyed, its a huge room,i also couldnt do that, but to go even further, even buying groceries had become a struggle. THAT is alot of the reason i married for financial reasons, not material, gotta keep up with the rest, gotta have better than others. I just simply dont like tile, especially that we should be having a child sometime early next year if things go as he wishes and tile is just asking for injuries from a child learning to walk and my children love laying in the floor and that is so hard and uninviting.
My comment of people being materialistic and stuck up is in reference of when i say what work he does, instead of recognizing its a good job that actually does pay well they put it down in saying its a poor job and not good enough. I state what I have chosen as for flooring and they come down saying that its not good enough. I just dont see reason to spend 3 times the money on something when what i chose has a warranty of several years and looks just as good. I dont need the top of the line of anything.

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Your self pity really does rile me, you have no idea what being 'poor' really is, you married a man because you wanted to, because somehow you think it makes you special - thats it! End of! please stop the excuses, you think you are onto a good thing and the rest of the men in the world are losing sleep every night because you're taken, that IS what you think right?

As ????? said, you should have not kept flying to Egypt every 5 minutes, if you were so poor. While you trying to save money why dont you cancel your internet do us all a favour...wait, let me guess, its for your kids!!!

finally, I hope your man is going to be satisfied with his cut price economy sex, no thrills and no extras, but then he'll just be over the moon because he's the one who finally got you wont he?

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i like big men not skinny men!!!
maybe 220 or 250 pounds is fine with me more ass to grab!!!
ya that dude has a small forest!!
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That makes no sense. A round trip flight to Egypt is at least $1500, you took this how many times? You obviously took it out of savings, otherwise you would have enough to get your own new floor, new carpeting and new windows or whatever you need. NOW you don't have the savings for that and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that you used the savings you had for those emergency repairs to make trips to see your SO's. That is that.

It makes you wonder why you didn't throw the money in the bank and save for a rainy day when you need to fall back on the cash especially if you've been in the wallows of despair. Not that I make fun of that, my mother works with volunteer organizations and I've gone with her several times to people who need help as you have needed it. But a resounding theme we often saw was that 99% of the time these people were their own worst enemies.
One time a woman had 4 kids, no food in the fridge, no food in the pantry, no money to pay her bills but had a HUGE wide screen television set, and a hot flashy car with expensive rims and a killer sound system. It was a familiar scene each time that the families most in need always used their money for things that weren't necessary instead of doing what they had to do to benefit THEMSELVES. I commend you for getting off of walfare, as we all pay (Paid) for that, but you are still leaning on someone else for support even now. Whatever, anyway ~

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And then, why is it important for anyone to even justify what they are buying, or spending or saving, or collecting husbands from all over the world for whatever reason they choose...who cares really??

Smucky you are too kind to keep trying!! Give up give up!

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I know exactly what being poor is like from my past. I was at the bottom of that during my first marriage, begging money from family, living off of welfare, working like crazy to try to get money coming in while that person sat on his butt finding every reason there was not to work so dont tell me i dont know what poor is. I cant count the number of times i had to go to the food bank for food and turn to churches to help pay electricity and heating cause it had been turned off. At one point was completely homeless for nearly 2 months living in a car so yes, i know exactly what it is. Luckily now, even if things got extreme, my home is paid off so i would always have a roof over my head and a vehicle to drive as i have no debt now, but i want to keep it that way. My husband understands the arrangement and i am not cold towards him, as his wife he has a right to the relations, I will adjust. Just have to take things a bit slowly. At the time i was making the trips, i wasnt poor, i could afford the extras, things change quickly. Still not what i consider poor, dont need welfare, still managing to pay the bills. I was just buying less food and the repairs to home were on hold.
Everything is cool, I know there are people in far worse situations than i. Over all we are all happy and accepting of the arrangement.Its not perfect but nothing is.

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Yes she has a boyfriend but that is a controlled situation, no time alone for them. We all spend time together as a family, me and the girls and her boyfriend as well, he's a good kid, though he really should learn to stand up to her and tell her no sometimes when she tells him what to do. Bossy little girl she is, but they adore eachother.

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Yes i could work many jobs and make plenty of money, the point is that these days parents are never home with their children and that is just wrong,

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Mystic, how can you aim to become pregnant by a man you hardly know, married and don't even love??

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TL,MH is all about attention seeking,the freakier/weirder the better.So since she already married one of her "offers" it's about "expected" the next chapter in the MH saga to be The Pregnancy.
She cannot bear to be out of the board's comments for a second.

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I dont know that i am pregnant, but I can assume that i most likely am due to the timing of it in the cycle, 3 days he was here was during the most fertile time of cycle. And if i am not, I will be within a couple months. It certainly didnt occur before, lol kinda hard to do 800 miles apart. I will know in a week or so as its been a week now, should be able to test at 2 weeks and know.
As for my statement of being with kids, i mean the parents that dont see their kids hardly at all because they are always at work, the ones that leave in the morning and arrive home after bedtime, they are never there at all. I was there and have been there for my kids daily with the exception of my trips which came only 2 times a year. And when i was gone there were daily phone calls and story reading and such so i was still available, unlike the ones that are at work so they cant talk to their kids at all. While i admire what they are trying to do, I dont agree with it.Kids are left on their own too much and able to do anything they wish this way, for mine, they are never without a parent, they do not stay with baby sitters, they are with me or their father constantly, and in the instance of staying with a friend i have to talk to the parent face to face to ensure that they will be there with them all the time.

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Ok,Mystic...how about sending us a pic of you getting laid with your latest hubbo?????
Since you reached the freaky/weirdo status long time ago,you should now aim for kinky all the way.This will sure increase the online trafic to your posts.

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Something not quite right here... announcing a pregnancy before the baby's possibly even been conceived sounds a wee bit warped to me. It really bugs me that people take for granted that they will become pregnant the second they even look at the latest man/victim - unless there's something iffy about the timing that we're not being told?? Please, MH, have a bit of self-respect and dignity. This is all just too screwed up for words.

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Something not quite right here... announcing a pregnancy before the baby's possibly even been conceived sounds a wee bit warped to me. It really bugs me that people take for granted that they will become pregnant the second they even look at the latest man/victim - unless there's something iffy about the timing that we're not being told?? Please, MH, have a bit of self-respect and dignity. This is all just too screwed up for words.

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I dont know that i am pregnant, but I can assume that i most likely am due to the timing of it in the cycle, 3 days he was here was during the most fertile time of cycle. And if i am not, I will be within a couple months. It certainly didnt occur before, lol kinda hard to do 800 miles apart. I will know in a week or so as its been a week now, should be able to test at 2 weeks and know.
As for my statement of being with kids, i mean the parents that dont see their kids hardly at all because they are always at work, the ones that leave in the morning and arrive home after bedtime, they are never there at all. I was there and have been there for my kids daily with the exception of my trips which came only 2 times a year. And when i was gone there were daily phone calls and story reading and such so i was still available, unlike the ones that are at work so they cant talk to their kids at all. While i admire what they are trying to do, I dont agree with it.Kids are left on their own too much and able to do anything they wish this way, for mine, they are never without a parent, they do not stay with baby sitters, they are with me or their father constantly, and in the instance of staying with a friend i have to talk to the parent face to face to ensure that they will be there with them all the time.

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Ok,Mystic...how about sending us a pic of you getting laid with your latest hubbo?????
Since you reached the freaky/weirdo status long time ago,you should now aim for kinky all the way.This will sure increase the online trafic to your posts.

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ROFL - Too funny , dont tell her this, next time I will be scared to click on any links, I can see it now, she'll have a big grin saying 'look at me, look at me'!


And Mystic, how bloody dare you! you self righteous no hoper, how dare you judge families that go out to work to try and give the best for their family while you lay on your back to get some wood flooring!

YOU are the one bringing strangers into the home, YOU are the one who plays happy families with any Tom, Dick or Harry, YOU are the one who is boasting about being pregnant after your first/second/third (who gives a s***) encounter. For the record, i'll tell you now that we dont want to know how big it is or what position you were in ok!

So, lets assume you were pregnant, because your selfish and self absorbed...what if next week he hits you? What if next week he stops work and becomes a lazy bum? What if the week after you find out he's had a affair? What if next month you find out he's gay and you were just a cover up? What if next month you find out he has a gambling/drinking/lying problem? What if next week he shouts at your kids and upsets them too much? What if next month your older kid says 'i'm not living with this man'?????

Sorry, thats all just life isn't it, things that have happened to real people, in the real world, you know, the kind of people that go to work to make ends meet? the kind of people that get to know a partner before they have children with them. The kind of people you think you are better than. People like you deserve to fall flat on your face! You'd still want to talk about it, you'd still want pity! and you'd still think your the worlds best Mother/wife/woman/muslimah!!


AND MOMEN - Yes we all know that she is getting married to strangers, having babies with strangers and pissing us all off with her tales of woe, because of you, this is all for your benefit and she hopes you are reading it all and weeping! She hopes that you are regretting how you could ever let such a good catch go. This is ALL for YOU!!! In case you haven't realised she is wanting you to get in touch and say 'please Mystic dont do this' 'why are you doing this?', and her response will be 'because I have nothing now, nothing left to live for, my life is destroyed anyway' .
That will tell her you care, she will screw up her life, JUST to get your attention, she will use another man JUST to get YOUR attention and try to get WHAT SHE WANTS.

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AND MOMEN - Yes we all know that she is getting married to strangers, having babies with strangers and pissing us all off with her tales of woe, because of you, this is all for your benefit and she hopes you are reading it all and weeping! She hopes that you are regretting how you could ever let such a good catch go. This is ALL for YOU!!! In case you haven't realised she is wanting you to get in touch and say 'please Mystic dont do this' 'why are you doing this?', and her response will be 'because I have nothing now, nothing left to live for, my life is destroyed anyway' .
That will tell her you care, she will screw up her life, JUST to get your attention, she will use another man JUST to get YOUR attention and try to get WHAT SHE WANTS.

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That's right, even if she is in denial of what she's doing, that's about the jist of it. Momen is probably living his life someone far more level-headed and thanking God for his escape out of laminate-flooring hell.

So now if anything happens that Mrs. mentioned with this guy she can say 'see what HE did'...the same as her 'lazy ex husband who never worked forcing her to beg for money from others'.

She relies on others to give her what she needs instead of planning for the days that she might just have to rely on herself. She sets things up in her life in such a way that she never really has to take responsibility or fault if (and when!) they crumble. So be it, it's her choice, but the kids involved suffer. It's sad to watch.

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