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Happy first anniversary which is coming up soon, CC.
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your MIL.
I think when she asked him to promise he won't leave Egypt she just wanted to make sure that your brother will be able to look after his own brothers so there will be stability left in the family.
BUT I believe it's kinda selfish. She lived her life and you and your husband have to live yours now. You are his wife and no matter what your situation could change one day which means you and your husband and possible offspring will have to relocate - at least for some time. You never know what the future holds for you.
Let some time pass by so your husband can find himself again. Give him time to grieve and come to terms with the loss of him mom. I know you have been always very kind and supportive so you will be there for him.
Once he feels better you truly need to discuss some very important things within your marriage. All the best. PS: Belated happy birthday to you. Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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I agree CC, just give him time to grieve. A few days is not long at all and he will still be feeling very raw about his loss.
What he feels now is not how he may feel later and as TL says in time you will be able to discuss the important issues in your marriage. Don't take it personally at the moment for he is surely now feeling himself. Just be there for him to comfort him and let him know that you are beside him at the moment.
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I am sorry to hear about the loss of your MIL, cc. wow 2 mom's in 2 months, i feel your pain, i am going thru issues just like you. hang in there , thats all we can do want to talk , i am here
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first cc sorry for yalls loss.. and u know it might take a few yrs for him to finish grieving.. he knows he made a promise t o his mom but in the future u never know he might nit wanna stay in egypt cas of the memories of his mom.. onlly time will tell just bare with him...and give him the time and space to grieve for his mom all u can do is be there for him and love him...
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quote:Originally posted by dolphin redsea: i understand all your concerns and i will not post here anymore, i knew i shouldnt have from the beginning but i needed some advice, and got some good advice. to set the story straight NO ONE heard from him until yesterday , he wanted to be left alone, and i respect that, he will be coming on the 22nd.
Mickey, did he come back??
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he musta came home cas i aint seen her.. shes catching up on lost time...
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((( hugs n kisses ))) micky
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sweetie you have it at least from me contact me via FB if you need too
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Mickey, add me on FB via Kalila (unless you are already there... if so tell me )
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Mickey, add me on FB via Kalila (unless you are already there... if so tell me )
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hugs from me too... maybe u will get good news soon
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I have only the best of wishes and hopes for you Mickey.
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quote:Originally posted by Lady Ferret: Mickey, add me on FB via Kalila (unless you are already there... if so tell me )
you have to tell me whats your addy on there, dont know your real names, Kalila "s either but i am there just look for oldbags Posts: 9443 | From: USA...... | Registered: Jun 2006
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ah - I've set up my FB so all my friends are hidden from each other so I'm afraid that won't work DR
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thanks alot my friend ;)i guess she will have to PM me with her name or their names.pordon wha madam Posts: 9443 | From: USA...... | Registered: Jun 2006
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Ok, Dolphin, Khalila and Lady Ferret - I've sent the three of you the same message on FB - so I think if you each reply to it, you will throw yourselves open to the others. Maybe. Bokra inshallah mishmish etc Posts: 5593 | From: Egypt | Registered: Dec 2005
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quote:Originally posted by Shanta Qadeama: Ok, Dolphin, Khalila and Lady Ferret - I've sent the three of you the same message on FB - so I think if you each reply to it, you will throw yourselves open to the others. Maybe. Bokra inshallah mishmish etc
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