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Originally posted by mysticheart:
You all really wanna know the reason, MOM! Moms health isnt so good and when faced with actually leaving her and the possibility that she die while he is away just ate at him. He simply can not leave his mom and have a chance that she die while he isnt there. That is that. She wants him in egypt with her and wants him in egypt for good and that is that. I lose out, again, to mom. I love the woman dearly, she loved me as well, just simple she doesnt want him leaving, though she didnt force it, he cant let her down and leave her

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What the ƒuck??

These people don't love you, nor do they give a crap about you. 'I have to stay with my mommy'? Are you shitting me??

Most people in the arab world have no concept of love, whether it's altruistic platonic love between close friends or romantic love between a man and a woman.

If his wench of a mother truly "loved" you, if he really "loved" you, then you'd be together without any of this BS.

That is not the case however. Your eagerness to be loved has caused you to abandon your own mores and concepts of love and a relationship, and you adopted theirs, which is the polar opposite of what love/a relationship should be.

It's between a man and a woman, not a man a woman and his fuckin mama, she can ƒuck right off along with everyone else that's in the way. Nothing less is acceptable.

You've given way to much of yourself that's why you feel depleted, and you're still holding on to some twisted concept of love that they convinced you was good enough, even tho deep down you knew it wasn't.

Get yourself back MH, godspeed.

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Tequila.

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Originally posted by VanillaBullshit:
Hush fatso.

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Originally posted by harankash:
If there was a diagnosis and a prognosis then maybe the story could be believable. As it is there is none. It's non specific.
If the mother is saying she will die, then of course that absolves her from the sin of lying because we all die at some point.
She is calculating her soul into the equation also.

All areas covered...........

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Just saw smuckers' post on the other page; she added a link. MH's husband does'nt seem credible, to say the least.

Hoping MH wakes up, and gets on with her life.

Whether the 'mother' story is true or not, is not relevant anymore, the husband is not reliable and that is a huge weakness in anyone.

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and please don`t think that all Egyptian men are creeps..and follow that warning in your heart ( STAY AWAY FROM EGYPTIAN MEN ) , or that will mean if an American woman had 2 or 3 times bad luck with American men...she must go to another country looking for a man away from USA..coz all American men are bad..!!!
very not logical...

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I'm sorry Mystic it smells fishier than week old Mackerell...

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ROFL Not much literally makes me laugh, but this did!

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Originally posted by Habeeby:
Mr Right is out there somewhere and you will find him when you stop looking, if you go looking for him you will just keep finding Mr Wrong...

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Originally posted by Habeeby:
Personally i think he is a gobshite who used her for the Visa.... Either he accepted it and is not telling her that and is dumping her to start his new life without her!!!!! Or he got refused and is not telling her this and is dumping her to find another Visa bride who he will be succesful with!!!!!! God help the next on because i think he will dump her to when he has got what he wants!!!!! As for the 'sick' mother, all i can say is - how come that always have a sick Mother when they want money, when they need to stay in Egypt or travel home alone. now sick Mother is reason for divorce also?????? I'm sorry Mystic it smells fishier than week old Mackerell... You need to pull yourself up off that floor and say 'this bastard will not beat me!'... He obviously was not the 'one' for you. concentrate on your life and your kids for now... Mr Right is out there somewhere and you will find him when you stop looking, if you go looking for him you will just keep finding Mr Wrong... Time will heal Mystic, but please don't enter into another relationship with a damaged heart it is recipe for disaster, give it time...
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Habeeby, I don't believe a visa is the case at all. If one recieves a marriage visa in the USA if they come on a K-3 which was Mystic's husbands visa type then upon arrival he must 1st adjust his status which can take up to 9 months. Then after two years upon arriving in the USA he would also have had to remove conditions as the marriage visa here is always a conditional visa based upon marriage. So it would not be at all easy for someone to accept a visa and come to the USA w/o the other one knowing. He would have never been allowed to stay that way.
Also if for some reason he went to the interview and was given a 221(g) (a form that they want other evidence for the marriage or an intent to deny) the wife is also notified.
I have no idea what really happened but I did want to clear up the visa issue as I am sure he did not receive it at his interview. Plus, most all men in Egypt go thru some sort of AP/AR after the interview and this can last months.

Good luck on your upcoming marriage. When is the happy day?

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Originally posted by mysticheart:
You all really wanna know the reason, MOM! Moms health isnt so good and when faced with actually leaving her and the possibility that she die while he is away just ate at him. He simply can not leave his mom and have a chance that she die while he isnt there. That is that. She wants him in egypt with her and wants him in egypt for good and that is that. I lose out, again, to mom. I love the woman dearly, she loved me as well, just simple she doesnt want him leaving, though she didnt force it, he cant let her down and leave her

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my fear is right then MH...sorry dear..i can tell you frankly this motha fucka is playing you...this story you can hear in any stupid Egyptian movie...
don`t shed a tear over this arsshole..
throw him with his memories in the toilet and flush it all away...

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Originally posted by mysticheart:
You all really wanna know the reason, MOM! Moms health isnt so good and when faced with actually leaving her and the possibility that she die while he is away just ate at him. He simply can not leave his mom and have a chance that she die while he isnt there. That is that. She wants him in egypt with her and wants him in egypt for good and that is that. I lose out, again, to mom. I love the woman dearly, she loved me as well, just simple she doesnt want him leaving, though she didnt force it, he cant let her down and leave her

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What the ƒuck??

These people don't love you, nor do they give a crap about you. 'I have to stay with my mommy'? Are you shitting me??

Most people in the arab world have no concept of love, whether it's altruistic platonic love between close friends or romantic love between a man and a woman.

If his wench of a mother truly "loved" you, if he really "loved" you, then you'd be together without any of this BS.

That is not the case however. Your eagerness to be loved has caused you to abandon your own mores and concepts of love and a relationship, and you adopted theirs, which is the polar opposite of what love/a relationship should be.

It's between a man and a woman, not a man a woman and his fuckin mama, she can ƒuck right off along with everyone else that's in the way. Nothing less is acceptable.

You've given way to much of yourself that's why you feel depleted, and you're still holding on to some twisted concept of love that they convinced you was good enough, even tho deep down you knew it wasn't.

Get yourself back MH, godspeed.

One word:

Tequila.

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VB you have such a soothing way with words ever thought of being a shrink yourself?

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Originally posted by BIC RUNGA ROXX:
i am sure he didn`t refuse to go to the interview and gave the Visa away...
maybe he found another better chance with another visa bride...more younger..or with more money...or with no kids on her tail...
what a jerk..!!!

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Originally posted by mysticheart:
You all really wanna know the reason, MOM! Moms health isnt so good and when faced with actually leaving her and the possibility that she die while he is away just ate at him. He simply can not leave his mom and have a chance that she die while he isnt there. That is that. She wants him in egypt with her and wants him in egypt for good and that is that. I lose out, again, to mom. I love the woman dearly, she loved me as well, just simple she doesnt want him leaving, though she didnt force it, he cant let her down and leave her

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What the ƒuck??

These people don't love you, nor do they give a crap about you. 'I have to stay with my mommy'? Are you shitting me??

Most people in the arab world have no concept of love, whether it's altruistic platonic love between close friends or romantic love between a man and a woman.

If his wench of a mother truly "loved" you, if he really "loved" you, then you'd be together without any of this BS.

That is not the case however. Your eagerness to be loved has caused you to abandon your own mores and concepts of love and a relationship, and you adopted theirs, which is the polar opposite of what love/a relationship should be.

It's between a man and a woman, not a man a woman and his fuckin mama, she can ƒuck right off along with everyone else that's in the way. Nothing less is acceptable.

You've given way to much of yourself that's why you feel depleted, and you're still holding on to some twisted concept of love that they convinced you was good enough, even tho deep down you knew it wasn't.

Get yourself back MH, godspeed.

One word:

Tequila.

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Originally posted by Bonzo:
This guy should have thought about his mom before marrying MH. He moved way too fast and played on MH while she was still recovering from another depression. I don't believe the interview story nor the part about his mom's health not being "so good". What does *that* mean? My mom's health isn't "so good" either but I live in Europe and she's in the states. That doesn't make me an uncaring daughter. Just one who is living her ADULT life but still there if her mom ever needs her.

I looked at that thread Momen posted on about China. It reeks of "PLAYER" all over. If you look at his profile and things he posted, he certainly wasn't concerned about leaving his mom to move to CHINA.

Besides, what's up with this yahoo.co.uk account? When you get a yahoo acct in Egypt, do they give you one in the UK? Just curious.

I noticed he changed his pictures on his website, too. Funny. . .none have MH in them.

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Well, I'm in the dark about Momen...Why don't you post the link to his website? What is his name on ES?

If Mystic did start a relationship while depressed, that doesn't sound like a good way to begin. Was Momen the rebound man?

I really don't understand people who fall in love with who ever they meet. It doesn't happen that easily for me. I'm pretty tough on a man though and would never admit to myself much less him if I feel in love with him until there is no way left to deny it. By that time we are both sure.

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Originally posted by MICKY A:
why does everyone have to talk about this . she is sad thats all that counts right now , cant we have respect for MH 's feelings and not bout momen's it is MH that came for our support not the scum bags

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Originally posted by MICKY A:
well thats her past . she needs our support now, you think

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and i agree with you newcomer. it should have been in private . but maybe she thinks we are all her friends

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Originally posted by Bubblesperson:
Hi dear Micki!!

Ey, I AM being nice... Trying hard at least, suggesting little things to get over / cope with heartache... Cause that she is distraught and tooo sad at this moment is clear.. As it was clear that she would go ahead and marry in the first place - however, no blame is due now for this, all part of the prevailing state of mind...

Which state of mind is out of sync, very seriously out, for a while already, right, Mystic - so, FIX IT!!!!! so nothing like this can ever happen again and you'll be so hurt...

Where is your daily report, please??? I still want to cheer..

Big hugs,
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i do agree but i want to let MH know we are here for her

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Originally posted by mysticheart:
Allah and Momen are the only ones that know this....If what he tells me isnt true then Allah will deal with him and so will his conscience.

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You are right about that, MH. I am a FIRM believer that what comes around, goes around. I have found taking the high road and moving on with life is the best revenge.

If you either try to seek revenge out of anger or even let him know you are completely a basket case because he left you, he is going to justify in his mind he was right in leaving you. . .but hold your head up, get yourself together, and move on. . .well, it will make him wonder if he made a wrong decision.

I promise you if you get yourself together and take the complete high road, it WILL be the sweetest revenge ever. It's happened each and every time with me & you will see for yourself.

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Originally posted by MICKY A:
well thats her past . she needs our support now, you think

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Originally posted by foreignluvr:
Habeeby, I don't believe a visa is the case at all. If one recieves a marriage visa in the USA if they come on a K-3 which was Mystic's husbands visa type then upon arrival he must 1st adjust his status which can take up to 9 months. Then after two years upon arriving in the USA he would also have had to remove conditions as the marriage visa here is always a conditional visa based upon marriage. So it would not be at all easy for someone to accept a visa and come to the USA w/o the other one knowing. He would have never been allowed to stay that way.
Also if for some reason he went to the interview and was given a 221(g) (a form that they want other evidence for the marriage or an intent to deny) the wife is also notified.
I have no idea what really happened but I did want to clear up the visa issue as I am sure he did not receive it at his interview. Plus, most all men in Egypt go thru some sort of AP/AR after the interview and this can last months.

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Originally posted by young at heart:
People here always say that people post here when things are going well. The 'BMD' syndrom. It takes a big person to come on and admit it's gone wrong. Pride is a big thing. I think everyone has had their say and it should be left at that. We all deal with things in a different way. That is the way of life.

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It seems you have not read enough threads here,YAT.I have read more bad than good experiences here,to tell you the truth.I would even say that the opposite holds truth:a good number of those happy unions for years!!!read this well,i said YEARS!!don`t need to come here and waste time and energy since they are enjoying themselves at their fullest.

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Originally posted by Habeeby:
So Doodlebug he could be pulling a fast one? Well i thought so... All those ES members from the US do not be suprised if you bump into this lowlife in the future... Mystic please contact the Embassy and check this out, do not let him have the last laugh...

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